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im new to this website but im verry excited to answer questions, give advice, and hopefully help out as many people as i can!
im 16 years old, and
i basically live by the quote LIVE LAUGH LOVE.
ive been through many things throughout my life but i ended up going back to how things were at the beginning
im very family oriented althou i hated everyone in my family not so long ago, but i learned theyre always going to be there for you no matter what.
so just live life to the fullest, laugh && smile all the time, have a good time, enjoy life, dont ever stop yourself from loving someone, becuase love is amazing, and my greatest happiness would be if i helped you out =]

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I've asked a similar question before....but here goes again...I got my period on the 12th of february...it was over by the 17th. I had unprotected sex with my husband on the 20th and he cummed in me. I peed and took a shower right away that doesn't help I know but I did it anyways. We did this once before had unprotected sex after my period maybe 3,4 days after and didn't become pregnant. Anyways now almost a week after...I am feeling bloated and kind of think about puking....is that because I think I am pregnant....24/7 cuz I know even if I am I can't have symptoms this early. Any advice is appriciated. And I know it's too early for me to take a pregnancy test. What's your opinion what do you think am I pregnant....or am I just thinking about it too much and it's giving too much stress and driving me crazy... thank you !

also the reason you may not have gotton pregant the first time is because there is a certain time after u get your period, usually from 2-4 days after in which you can have unprotected sex and not get pregnant. there is an exact formula and everything to figure out which day it is that you can have sex and nothing will happen. maybe just maybe you coincidently had sex on that day and so therefore did not become pregnant. not to scare you or anything, but just putting that out there. til you can take a pregnancy test i say try to be a little more calm about it, because stress also makes you're period come later.

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im 15 wit a 15 yr old gf i live in australia and so does she. how can i make my girlfriend feel beautiful if i havent seen her in a couple of weeks bout 4-5 and will she still have eyes for me after that long away from me or will she not like me animore or what i dont know what to do? i told her first time we met that ill always b there but at the moment i havent had time or money to take the public transport and when she asked me out i 4got to ask for her details so i couldnt call her soooo what should i do???? im in a big predicament ppplllzzz hlp.

how do you keep in touch with ther? if you dont live in differetn countries you should start off possibly talking on the phone with her. that way you can both tell eachother how much you miss eachother and you can tell eachother how much you care for eachother and you can tell her pretty things and things that will make her feel loved and cared for and that way she wont stop loving you or missing you or caring for you even when you two are apart. also next time you talk to her let her know that you arent in the condition or have the ability to pay for transportation right now mayb you can figure out another way to see eachother. mayb she could come over to see you or you could have your parents or someone else drive you guys to see eachother. im sure that she will understand your situation, i think you should talk to her very openly about your situation and she will understand and mayb even help you out or possibly help you figured out other ways to see eachother but also figure out ways to stay in communicaion when you dont see eachother during those long weeks. if you both truely care about eachother im sure you can both figure something out and it migt be hard to not see eachother very often but if you both hold it otgether and enjoy the time whenever you see eachother then yuo wil b able to stay together happily and if she has stopped liking you or such then im sure she would have broken it off with you already so dont worry about that just yet. just try to talk to her more often and let her know your situation you can both work through this! good luck* hope your situation gets better for you, hold in there, and just be honest wit her.. hope i helppedd =]

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i just got out of the shower like 10 minutes ago, and i went to my room to get a shirt because i grabbed the wrong one, and i got this pain like i was gonna get sick or something. but then i came down stairs and it got worse. it felt like someone was stabbing me or hitting me with something repeatedly in my mid to lower back. because of the pain it was hard to breathe and i started crying cause it really hurt. it doesn't hurt right now, but what could it be?

have you gotton your period alreadi? or is it near your time of the month? cause it sounds like it might be some sort of very painful back cramps. if thats not the case you might also be getting these sort of "shocks" i get them a lott.. nd im nto sure why it happens but it jsut feels lik something keep stabbing me in the back and it really hurts, when i get them i try to take slooow deep breaths to get the pain to stop or if that makes it worse stop moving, and just sit still for a bit breathing verrrryyy slowly little by little until you feel the pain slowly start going away. if this really bothers you try going to a doctor or someone more professional but i think theyre sort of back cramps or like shocks from the muscles cramping or something ive had em for a while nd they havent gotton better but now i only get them lik once every 2 months or not even so look out ot see if you keep getting them and do somethign about it if theyre that painful. hope i helped =]

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what do guys look for in a girl?

high school guys?

and senior guys?

and if your not the prettiest rose in the bunch, then what will make a guy go out with you?

i agree with the people below me but also ive heard from my close guy friends that they dont really like girls who are reallyy loud and immature all of the time, they like girls they know can be serious sometimes and that know how to act in certain places. they want girls that will listen to them, to be sweet, kind, girls that arent going around with every guy but that have their own boundries, and this piece of advice i got even from my dad* you gotta get hte guy to chase you around. dont ever chase a guy around... because they feel higher than you and dont take you serious. so jsut be who you are that even if your not the prettiest girl in the bunch if you got an amzing personality trust me that will stand out. prob not at first glace cuz guys are assholes and first they look at appearences but after a while trust me theyll stop caring abotu appearences and theyll want to settle with someone with a nice personallity if they get with someone hot and an ugly personality they just wanna pass the time and have fun, but they would never consider anything else. so jsut wait it out, let the guy want to b all over you, and let yourself feel wanted, then give em what he wants but always keep him on the high wire that way he know he cant mess up and thatll draw him in ... hope i helped =] lemme know, and good luck hun

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Alright.. So..
There was this one guy.. It's been a year since we broke up, and I still get "butterflies in my stomach" whenever I think about him. Yeah, I still love him. I'm 15 btw.. which means nothing.

He was my first love.. and I was 14 and him 18. WELL, the age difference was too much of a problem for him. I don't know how long we went out (5 months?), but he always said he loved me sooo much.. & he really meant it (well, it sure seemed that way :P)

Anyway, he then broke up with me because the age difference was too much and he wanted to get married and finally "grow up" and be something. I guess I was sorta holding him back? It took him forever to finally decide that though, but he did & he broke up with me.. Found someone new.. and engaged her quickly. The problem with that was that he quickly started to see her faults, but it was too late.

So.. During the time that we spoke after that, he would say that he still loved me, etc.. And he said that maybe, when I'm 18, something could possibly happen again. Yeah, he's a guy who is too much in a rush to grow up.. Trust me..

Anyway, then he moved in with her, stopped talking to ALL of his friends, including me, and began a new life.

It frustrates me so much.. Hopefully you understand.. He's really different, yknow? I'm moving on.. In fact, I now have a boyfriend that I've been with for 4 months who I love.. But the fact that I still love this other guy makes me doubt that I truly do love him.

So what? What do I do? & How do I move on & Does this mean that I don't love my bf completely?

so evidentlt this guy was your first love. your always going to care for him or "love him' like you say. for example me right now im in a year old relationship and my ex-boyfriend was somethign very special to me we broke it off and i have a feeling we both felt that it wasnt time to let go yet so i feel like we both have lingering feelings but weve both moved on. i know i love the guy im with and would think about it 10 times before even thinking of leaving him for my ex but whenever i see my ex i still get feelings for him, but those feelings will always be there. dont worry, by the sound of it sounds like your realli in love with this new guy, and if you get feelings back when you think or see your ex thats totally natural. dont b worried that you dont love this other guy because you someimtes have feelings for the other guy. now this other guy wanted to move very fast and you are way to young for that sort of thing, you still have so much to live for so dont worry he deicded to move in with the girl and to stop talking to his friends that happens when you get commited, but just know that time will heal this. you will always care for him and he will always be somethin special but jsut dont hold back your feelings for your new boyfriend and try to not think abotu him too much, time will heal and hell always be your "first cut which is the deepest" like the song lol... hope i helped =] jsut keep holding in there and good luck with your new boy* this happens to everyone trust me, but just be glad uve decided to move on.. nd thats the best...

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i got caught with a drug and now all i want to do is put it all behind me. i never want to do it again but its hard because some of my friends still do it. i need distractions or something. how do i keep myself away from drugs?

i have a couple of suggestions for you. i mean i dont know you but i hope one these may help you out. you could try to find yourself new friends, dont ditche the old ones- or just yet.. simply try to find other people that you may have a little more in common with now, find new friends that arent involved into those drugs and are focused on other things. now i know this may sound stupid but you can start a sport or hobby, something new youve been wanted to try for a while, that way you can be busy and if you dont want to hang out wit that group of friends one day that do the drugs you can say your busy doing whatever it is you get into and then youll get out of feeling uncomforable around them. a great help for yourself would b if you set your mind and body to the goal that you wont get yourself involved again. if you realli set your mind to it you can be around your friends that do the drug wit the ability to say no the drug, but if you feel the temptation will be too big then try to get yourself out of hte situation. now i dont know you, or your beliefs or anything, but you could also think about joining a religion or somethning bigger around you that can help guide you. a youth group perhaps, there you will meet tons of new people that may even b in your same situation and you can make new friends and they can help you out as well. if you have a God or a community in which you slowly start to believe in they can help you to stop yourself and to realized that you dont need those things and can do other things with your time. hope i helped =]

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i see this like everywhere

"i love you |"

whst is it?

the line you see next to "i love you" is a heart in HTML format. If you kno a lot about that you know that if you type in ♥ that heart appears but if you use firefox or an internet server familiar to that you dont see the heart instead you see that line. hope were talking about the same thing, && hope i helped =]

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the singer is hellogoodbye and the song is touchdown turnaround how do u find that song on myspace because i wanna add it and hellogoodbye doesent have it on there thing on myspace

if you type in touchdown turn around in the keywordseach bar under music on myspace. the song will come up. i dont kno that song or the artist but i found a song with that name and i believe that mayb the one. [[http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=61342397]] i also found this one [[http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=163402880]] you can decided which myspace you perfer to take it from. hope i helped =]

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can u put two condoms on for double protection>>>????lol

i would not suggest doing that. first off it doesnt help to give you extra protection. and it could actually create more friction with the rubbing of the two condoms together causing a big chance of them breaking, and i doubt you want that. hope i helped =]

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