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Oh man..
Alright.. So..
There was this one guy.. It's been a year since we broke up, and I still get "butterflies in my stomach" whenever I think about him. Yeah, I still love him. I'm 15 btw.. which means nothing.
He was my first love.. and I was 14 and him 18. WELL, the age difference was too much of a problem for him. I don't know how long we went out (5 months?), but he always said he loved me sooo much.. & he really meant it (well, it sure seemed that way :P)
Anyway, he then broke up with me because the age difference was too much and he wanted to get married and finally "grow up" and be something. I guess I was sorta holding him back? It took him forever to finally decide that though, but he did & he broke up with me.. Found someone new.. and engaged her quickly. The problem with that was that he quickly started to see her faults, but it was too late.
So.. During the time that we spoke after that, he would say that he still loved me, etc.. And he said that maybe, when I'm 18, something could possibly happen again. Yeah, he's a guy who is too much in a rush to grow up.. Trust me..
Anyway, then he moved in with her, stopped talking to ALL of his friends, including me, and began a new life.
It frustrates me so much.. Hopefully you understand.. He's really different, yknow? I'm moving on.. In fact, I now have a boyfriend that I've been with for 4 months who I love.. But the fact that I still love this other guy makes me doubt that I truly do love him.
So what? What do I do? & How do I move on & Does this mean that I don't love my bf completely?
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so evidentlt this guy was your first love. your always going to care for him or "love him' like you say. for example me right now im in a year old relationship and my ex-boyfriend was somethign very special to me we broke it off and i have a feeling we both felt that it wasnt time to let go yet so i feel like we both have lingering feelings but weve both moved on. i know i love the guy im with and would think about it 10 times before even thinking of leaving him for my ex but whenever i see my ex i still get feelings for him, but those feelings will always be there. dont worry, by the sound of it sounds like your realli in love with this new guy, and if you get feelings back when you think or see your ex thats totally natural. dont b worried that you dont love this other guy because you someimtes have feelings for the other guy. now this other guy wanted to move very fast and you are way to young for that sort of thing, you still have so much to live for so dont worry he deicded to move in with the girl and to stop talking to his friends that happens when you get commited, but just know that time will heal this. you will always care for him and he will always be somethin special but jsut dont hold back your feelings for your new boyfriend and try to not think abotu him too much, time will heal and hell always be your "first cut which is the deepest" like the song lol... hope i helped =] jsut keep holding in there and good luck with your new boy* this happens to everyone trust me, but just be glad uve decided to move on.. nd thats the best... <3
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