im a 13/f and i have never kissed a boy in my life. I have never even gone out with a boy in my life. I have wavy brown hair and am about 5'4 with an athletic figure. I want to know if theres somthing wrong with me and why i cant get a bf. plz help me
justaskmenow answered Friday April 13 2007, 10:18 pm: oh so. im 16 and didnt get a boyfriend til this year. so dont worry. your 13 and young. dont stress. i also havent had a first kiss yet. its not a big deal. dont worry, and just be yourself. dont every change for a guy! [ justaskmenow's advice column | Ask justaskmenow A Question ]
krazyismefosho answered Friday April 13 2007, 8:26 pm: Don't worry about it.
I didn't get a BF until I was 13 1/2 and I didn't kiss a boy until my second BF when I was 14.
Try opening up a little more and making friends with more guys. Honestly, even the prettiest girl can't get a BF if they don't talk to and be friends with guys.
xOViLLYxO answered Friday April 13 2007, 7:15 am: Girl,don't even worry. Nothing is wrong with you. That's a good thing if you haven't gone out with a guy, because you will always have something to worry about. Your only 13 your have a long time to find a guy. If you really want one then you just have to start flirting alot and hang out with guys and call them and stuff. ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
mariahwannabe answered Friday April 13 2007, 6:08 am: Ok.Im thirteen.With brown wavy hair, never kissed a boy and never gone out with one either!
It totally fine that you havn't experience it yet - we are 13 not 30 if you what I mean.
Some boys just might see us as their type but I promise that there will be one, that loves everything about you...
For me I dont care if i havnt experienced yet - Im just a kid with big ambitions and my future career and school is more important than getting a kiss, I mean if I get a boyfriend now it is never going to last really.
There is nothing wrong with you, the right boy hasn't come by yet but he will, and promise me one thing, dont sell yourself short.And when you do get a bf and a kiss, make sure its someone you really want to be with.
askforanswersfromAndie answered Friday April 13 2007, 12:52 am: o hun trust me its ok i knwo some 28 year old guys and girls hwo have never had bfs or gf its really not all its cracked up to be the longer you wait the better less pain and getting hurt, you may think yiour mssing so much i thought i was 2 but waiting for the right guys is worth every minut of minimal pain till get better even if it doesn't seem like it will, ive been there hun [ askforanswersfromAndie's advice column | Ask askforanswersfromAndie A Question ]
lbwhite89 answered Thursday April 12 2007, 11:42 pm: There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. I'm 17 and I've never had an official boyfriend...and I don't think there's anything wrong with me either. I could get a boyfriend if I WANTED one...I just DON'T. I have more important things to focus on right now.
I don't get a lot of guy attention because I'm shy and don't flirt or put myself out there. If you really WANT a boyfriend, you'll have to put some effort into it. Guys are TERRIFIED of rejection...which is why a lot of pretty girls don't have boyfriends.
christina answered Thursday April 12 2007, 11:41 pm: There's nothing wrong with you. Most people don't get kissed until 16 or even older than that. And some people don't get a boyfriend or a girlfriend for a while. So there's nothing wrong with you. Just be patient & someone will come. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
xoLoLaox answered Thursday April 12 2007, 11:40 pm: There is NOTHiNG wong with you.
If you don`t liek a boy yet, that`s fine!
It doesn`t mean yer like lesbian or anything, haha. You just don`t have that intereset yet! You have bette things to do than that, right?
nadine204 answered Thursday April 12 2007, 11:39 pm: nothings wrong with you. you just have to wait. it sucks I KNOW. ive never kissed anyone or gone out with anyone and im 14 =[
anyways i care at times but then i realized why would a GUY make my life happier? i mean guys arent my entire life and you should be happy relationships shouldnt depend on the happiness
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