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how to ask for a bj

Question Posted Friday May 11 2007, 6:53 pm

so my girlfriend and i are really into eachother
and she's given one of her ex's blowjobs and handjobs before
but i've never been with anyone who would do that
whats the right way to ask for one or do i just wait till she goes for it on her own?

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Ashumms answered Sunday May 13 2007, 2:19 pm:
You can ask her if she wants to go a step further in your relationship. But if you get your jollies and she doesn't get hers, it's not really fair to her.

Or you can just guide her hand to your penis, but if she pulls it away, don't push her. Hold her hand up against your chest and slowly drag it down until it's resting against you.

Hope this helps!

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Adorkable answered Friday May 11 2007, 10:03 pm:
You'll know when it's the right time. Just ask her if she wants to take the relationship a step further. Good luck hun! -Adorkable

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BEYONDxAMAZING answered Friday May 11 2007, 10:01 pm:
if i was you ( butt i`m not ) i would wait for her to be ready to russh into things such as that :) but to let her know that you are interested in going a step up into the realationship you should talk to her about it. but give her time ( make sure she feels comfortable ). really there is no right way to ask that type of question. i always get "suck it" but from a girls point of view, that`s kinda unattractive. i say, you should just let it fall into place. if it don`t happen then it don`t happen, but everything happens for a reason.

i`m not sure if that was what you were looking for in an answer but if it helps then your welcome &&& if it don`t go so well... i`m sorry buddy :(

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Esty-Metallica answered Friday May 11 2007, 9:06 pm:
this is a hard question, well let me try to answer.
You can start a nice talk with your girlfriend, like random stuff have some jokes and all, & than slowly bring out the topic, ask how it was when she gave bj for her ex and if she says she liked it, than likely say, ive never goten one , maybe we could try sometime. Well, someting like that you can say, this is a hard question lol.
sorry anyways, hopefully i helpedd.

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scarymovielvr3 answered Friday May 11 2007, 8:12 pm:
hmm, thats a hard one. (haha) okay, now i will be serious. why dont you just start talking to her, then try to (slowly) get on the subject. tell her what you think. mabe even mention boundries so she doesnt think you an ass. thats all i can think of. hope i helped... a little.

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murderdoll_x answered Friday May 11 2007, 8:11 pm:
Try going down on her first, see how she feels and she'll likely get the idea. Don't be spontaneous about it though, if you're making out or something, feel her up and she might do the same to you. Just give her the idea, and she'll go for it.

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