I met a guy, 4 days later he asked if I'd like to hang out at his place, I said yes and went over, after watching movies for hours things got intimate, after he didn't want me to leave so I stayed. The next day he asked me over again so I went and stayed until quite late. And yet again the next day he invited me over and I ended up staying until late into the night. We've chatted on the phone and he's said things like thank-you for calling and that it was nice to hear from me. Am I setting myself up to get hurt or does it sound like he might genuinely be interested in pursuing something with me?
Dorra8you answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 4:58 pm: this is probably something you might have to really consider for yourself----it all pretty much depends how he acts with you when you guys are talking/together...
but for now it sorta seems like your his booty call....
but i could be wrong---how long have you known this guy??, does he hang out with you besides when you guys are "getting intimate"?? and does he show a genuine interest in your interests like meeting your friends and stuff?? all these questions could probably help you out in deciding if he actually wants to start something with you [ Dorra8you's advice column | Ask Dorra8you A Question ]
mwalnutss answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 4:54 pm: hey! i think it sounds like he likes you. but i would slow things down. maybe one day be like i cant call or i cant hang out. but it sounds like he is kinda setting you up to get hurt. cause you are spending so much time together;; but like what happens if you guys just split after spending that much time together. you might lose the friendship. try maybe not hanging out with him, or maybe hanging out with him with a group of friends. hope i helped. [ mwalnutss's advice column | Ask mwalnutss A Question ]
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