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Im a guy 15 years old. What do you say to a girl that u just met? like i usually know wat to say and stuff, but shes kinda shy around new people. so wat would u like say. I dont know if i want a relationship or nething, but i want to talk to her (link)
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im a girl and pretty shy around new people as well
and personally i would think that if you starting to talk to me online(reguarding the other columnist's advice) that it would be creepy
so i would just recamend you break the ice the old fashioned way
i would say that you should deffenently be funny,
be confident but not cocky,
and dont be a phonie----try to find common ground between you and her
ex. do you have any classes together??
you know any of the same people??
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14/f
after school, i'm doing a sport and well around now is when i'm supposed to get my next period. So I already know that I can't wear tampons when you do not have your period. Well for now until my period starts I am wearing Maxi Pads and well they have the slips that you tuck under your underwear so they stay in place...
My question is when I change in the locker rooms (i can't in the bathroom) there's gonna be almost 50 other girls there... and well I really do not want them to see me with a pad, so my question is what if I wear some kind of workout tights/shorts underneath my jeans at school, and then after school when we change nobody can see my underwear, and so i would just change into shorts.
does that seem weird? would people laugh??
if this sounds like a bad idea- how do i make my pad seem less visible in front of people when I change?
I CAN'T wear a tampon yet because i havn't gotten my period yet, it's gonna be starting pretty soon, so i just wanna be prepared.
PLEASE answer quickly. thank you! (link)
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dont listen to "edwardcullenlover" because if you wear a tampon like that then its possible to get tss which can led to the loss of the ability to have children
----dont wear the shorts under your jeans----thats actually really odd ,,, if your changin in the girls locker room nobody will notice you wearing the pad and even if they do, it wont be a big deal---
soon you will find yourself havin casual conversations about shit like you periods and stuff SO DONT WORRY ABOUT WEARING THE PAD WHEN YOU HAVE TO CHANGE IN THE LOCKER haha
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im 13 and i weigh 130 pounds.
im a diabetic so i cant like not eat, i have to eat like 4 carbs at meals and 1-2 carbs for snacks which i have to have 3 of during the day.
i want to lose about 20 pounds by summer or so to look nice in a bikini.
i know people say cardio works, but like if i ran around on the trampoline, like jog on it or whatever would that work, and like running around my backyard.
also i heard jumping rope is good, but i can only do it for like 1 minute at a time.
what else can i do to lose weight on my arms and legs and stomach and but.
please helppp. (link)
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now first off, your 13 and you shouldn't be worried about loosing weight at your age even though from personal knowlegde i know its a factor in everyday life....
secondly having an ass is good so i would recamend to do leg workouts that shape up both your legs and butt---such things like lunges, wall sits, buttkicks, knee-to-chest kicks all work for this goal....
vertical crunches work on the lower stomach region mostly
and if you need any explaination on any of the exercises just let me know
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i have this talent show coming up and im not sure what to do for my audition. we have to make it using a video, and send it to this guy.. and then i guess they just see what your gonna do, i dont know. this is my first show, since im 13 in 7th grade. (i'm a girl btw) I have no idea what song i wanna sing!!! for the audition AND the show. can you guys give me some tips and pointers on what i should wear when i make the video audition thingy and what songs i should sing that would really show off my voice? um i dont know how to describe my voice either. i guess kinda like mariah carey/beyonce but i cant get those really high notes (well i can sing Deja vu by beyonce well but idk if it really shows off my voice either.) some songs i've already thought of singing were "smile" by charlie chaplin, "deja vu" by beyonce, "downtown" by petula clark, "fly lik e a bird" by Mariah Carey (I couldnt get the really high notes in that one).. umm etc. pick a really good song.. thats just really good, lol. i dont care if its old, the oldies are goldies as they say.
THANKS alot!!!!!!!!!!1 (link)
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well since you say your an alto and all that haha,,, the songs i recamended in the first place below should be good----haha GOOD LUCK
i recamend that you wear something confident but not slutty,
i do agree with the other columnist when they said that you should sing something your comfortable with....
make sure its a song you can sing well, and get someone who's actually heard you sing opinion on the song you choose....
some good old songs that show off unique vocal are "who's loving you" by the jackson five, "Band of Gold" by Freda Payne, "Bang Bang" by Nancy Sinatra------
it all pretty much depends on if your a soprano, alto, baratone, etc.
if you figure out which one you are let me know and i could probably recamend some songs that would suite your type of voice
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can one person be the cause of a dysfunctional family? (link)
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i thinnk it always depends on the family flow---but keep in mind it takes two to tango.....there's always atleast TWO PEOPLE to start a fight.....but like i said it always depends with the certain situation
keep in mind that it takes TWO PEOPLE to fight(which cause dysfunction)
i hope this helps you out a bit
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i have short legs. and with short legs (any leg type really just more on short legs ) you got to keep them fit to look good. and i feel like ive been letting myself go. and i have a little belly. not much but i want to fix it for summer. any good diets or anything at all? thanks so much!!! (link)
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well if you want to tone up your legs i suggest a LOT of wall sits, and good ones too---cause if you do them half ass nothing will happen to your legs,,,, and lunges are good when getting you legs in shape, buttkicks(when you run make sure your heel hits your butt), ummmm knee to chest runs(when you run make sure you knees go up to your chest), hmmmm vertical crunchs help a lot with the lower belly
if you need more ideas---or just have any questions on how to do these exercises just let me know
good luck!!
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i need some really manly music, e.g. hardcore rap, hip hop etc, to man up a little girly boy. any artists? (link)
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all these answers are pretty good---but you might wanna check out some old song rap like the Notorious B.I.G. with his songs "hyponotize" and "Big Poppa"--Tupac with "California Love"---ludacris "The Potion"----and i havent checked out Public enemy number one yet, but i heard they were good and i think these are a lot more "manly" for you, cause the new shit is getting to lovey dovey for me
hope this helped and if you need anything "manlyer" (not spelled right i think) then just get at me
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I met a guy, 4 days later he asked if I'd like to hang out at his place, I said yes and went over, after watching movies for hours things got intimate, after he didn't want me to leave so I stayed. The next day he asked me over again so I went and stayed until quite late. And yet again the next day he invited me over and I ended up staying until late into the night. We've chatted on the phone and he's said things like thank-you for calling and that it was nice to hear from me. Am I setting myself up to get hurt or does it sound like he might genuinely be interested in pursuing something with me? (link)
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this is probably something you might have to really consider for yourself----it all pretty much depends how he acts with you when you guys are talking/together...
but for now it sorta seems like your his booty call....
but i could be wrong---how long have you known this guy??, does he hang out with you besides when you guys are "getting intimate"?? and does he show a genuine interest in your interests like meeting your friends and stuff?? all these questions could probably help you out in deciding if he actually wants to start something with you
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how do i tell my mom about my period?? (link)
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if your worried about if your mom will get all mushy and be like " oh my baby's a grown women"
just be like "mom dont get all teary eyed ---but i got my period, and now you need to buy an extra supply of ---------(fill in the kind of feminine products) haha"
or make some kinda joke out of it,,, either way she'll laugh and understand
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i am absuloutly in love with the song Beating Hearts Baby by Head Automatica. do you know any songs like it? that are happy rock-ish? with such an up-beat beat?
thank you so so much!!!!!
xo (link)
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Head automatica also did "Cannibal Girl"---and you might wanna check out the fratellis "chelsea dagger", and "For the Girl".... those are all pretty good
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hey i was just wondering.
ive been in my relationship for about 9 months now, and the calling and texting has slowed right up.. ive told him that i dont think he calls me enough and in response he said that he doesnt want to feel like he has to call me.. which is fair enough.. but is this just a guy thing with not texting much.. he said hes not a texter, which is good, but he could at least call me more. is twice a week to little, considering i only see him once or twice a week.
hes gone away fishing for a few weeks, and the calling has narrowed down to once a week maybe twice, does this mean he wants to end it by avoiding me or is it just he doesnt like calling much or something?
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i slightly agree with hectorjr.------he's probably just a guy who doesnt like or remember to call people, and you should probably not get on his case about not calling so much cause---just because you guys are going out doesnt mean you have to talk at every waking moment, and seeing as he's away fishing you might wanna just consider calling him if you need to talk...in time he will probably start calling you just as much as you want him too, or get to talking when YOU call him haha.....
just keep in mind he's a guy and not most guys have a phone permanently attached---it probably doesnt mean he wants to end it, but if you really are suspicious about that then just lookout for signs when you are actually together in person----but just be glad that he's not calling you like everyday
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