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i want to finger my girlfriend
im a guy, so any girls that read this will probably think is is a simple question, but i need help. My girlfriend wants me to finger her but shes never masturbated or used tampons, and she says its uncomfortable every time we try. I'm not able to even get half of a finger in her. Any advice?
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Well first off to get the girl into the mood is to start making outt and stuff,
touch her butt, and kiss her neck.
Then when you start to get into the pants,
start rubbing her clit slowly to get her wet,
then start fingering her with one finger and if it doesn't hurt her, then use two,
Be very gentle, unless she tells you otherwise.
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things for you to try/keep in mind:
you don't have to go in... you can give her pleasure by playing with her clit.
she should feel around there to see what feels good and which way to go in..
are you sure you're going in right or just straight up however...
make sure she's "wet" when you do or use lube..
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Use a waterbased lubricant. It will make it easier to put your finger in her. However she has to understand that if she "thinks" its going to be uncomfortable, then it will be. Try working her up a little bit. kiss her neck, use foreplay then use the lubricant when you finger her, all you have to do is put a little on your finger and take it slow.
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If she wants you to finger her, advise her to either start masturbating or deal with the pain until she's used to it. I'd say she's just rly tight, it happens. Just keep trying, and doing a little bit more every time. She'll get used to it eventually.
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well, my bf fingers me all the time. it was hard to get used to but every nite, we would just put a little more of his finger in me until he got all the way.
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