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friends older brother
16/f
i stayed with one of my friends monday night and we were watching a movie but she fell asleep before it went off and her brother walked by and saw me by myself and asked me why i wasnt asleep yet because it was like around mindnight. i told him i wasnt really that tired and i couldnt fall asleep yet and he asked me if i wanted to come play ps2 with him in the living room and i said sure. well, were playing and all of a sudden he put his hand on my inner thigh and like started rubing but he was still looking at the tv. ive had a crush on him for like a year so i scooted closer and he moved his hand so he could put his fingers under my shorts. i cant really remember exactly how it happened but we ended up fooling around until aorund three but we didnt have sex. well then tuesday before i left that afternoon some girl came over and picked my friends bro up and she said it was his gf and i didnt even know he had one so now i feel really bad but is it really even my fault? i mean, he knew he had a gf and i didnt. isn't it his responsibility to tell me had a gf and he made the first move so waht to do? sorry its so long.
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It's definately not your fault. You had no intention on making a move on him, and he made the first move on you. You wouldn't have even done anything if he didn't bring it up upon himself. It was his idea, and it was his responsibility to tell you that he had a girlfriend, or to not even do anything. Don't worry, it's not your fault. Don't feel guilty. You might want to say something to your friends brother for playing both his girlfriend AND you.
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You shouldn't have to do shit,
You didn't know that he had a girl,
and he didn't tell you,
What were you supposed to do?
Ask him and make sure he didn't
You didn't even think bout doin that, yah?
Girl, TRUST: its not your fault.
i promise..
And if anybody else tells you otherwise.
just ignore that.
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Its definatly not your fault, it was his responcibility to tell you he had a gf and if he didn't then its his fault...yea it might make you feel guilty, but you had no way of knowing...
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hey, well to me it sounds like you got used. i mean you were an easy target. his younger sisters teenage friend alone at midnight with his sister sleeping. i wouldnt even talk to him ever again. hes an asshole. if he ever does try to talk to you first again, ask him why he didnt let you know that he had a girlfriend. well first make sure that your 100% sure that he really does have a girlfriend. also if he ever trys to fool around with you again, dont give in.
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