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I had sex with this guy that i really really like. It was my first time. And I hated it. It hurt so badly. And I was bleeding a whole lot. Why did it hurt? And why was I bleeding? I am 14/f
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Well, you were bleeding because he popped yo cherry. :) Bwuahah.
And it probably hurt a shitload because you're really tight O_O And sticking that up your poonani would hurt like hell. But what can you do.
Don't know why yous having sexx if you dont even know the answers to these questions, but that's perfectly fine =) Your decisions, your life :D
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When you have sex you "pop your cherry" and it bleeds and hurts because it rips a little piece of skin inside you, it also might be because at 14 you're still very small and that hole isn't very big and to be shoving something into it, makes it stretch and rip and it's gonna hurt really bad. considering you probably won't stop having sex i should warn you that the next few times WILL still hurt, till you get used to the pain. then you'll be fine. make sure he uses a condom and you get on birth control FAST... you don't want babies at your age. and imagine if your parents found out. yikes!
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Well your you need to kno that your first time isn't going to be most pleasureable thing in the world.
Its going to hurt, because your so tight.
It hurt because he is sticking a big dick down your little hole, and maybe split your skin, and/or popped yur cherry.
and you were bleed because..
yah he did pop your cherry.
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if you don't know the answers to these questions you shouldn't be having sex...
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Not everyone bleeds but I have known some to bleed a little and others to bleed a lot and then there's the few who have bleeded the first few times they had sex and not just the very first time they did. It is natural so don't worry - the cause is the tearing/breaking of the hymen which is a thin membrane/skin covering over the viginal opening about 2" inside you. This is generally the reason for the bleeding. On many females this hymen is not intact becuase it can tear during normal day to day activities such as cycling, exercise, sports and such. On others though this is not always the case, hence the bleeding. This may also have been a contribution to the pain you had felt (which again is natural) and is generally because your vigina is not acustomed to having been streatched out in the way experienced during sexual intercourse. In time this pain will subside so try not to worry. One thing that can greatly help though is that the guy taking his time and not rushing - if the guy rushes (the vigina lubricates itself but if the guy doesn't allow that to happen it would be a painful experience whether it's your first time or not - but I say that only from what I have been told and not experience).
The next time you may not bleed at all and the pain may not be so bad but expect it to still hurt a good few times yet until your body becomes acustomed to being stretched the way it is during sex. As I said though, the guy taking his time and not rushing and making sure you are prepared (aka you are 'wet' down below) will hopefully help greatly.
I hope this was helpful and remember, stay safe and use protection. :]
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You were bleeding because your cherry popped. That's just a metaphor.
What it really means is there's a stretch of skin "down there" and it's called the hymen. It tears on your first time, so you bled and this happens to almost everybody! So don't fret, sweetie. For some girls it can be merely uncomfortable while for others it can be agonizing and lots of girls do cry while it's happening.
So don't worry because everything you're describing happens to almost everyone, and is completely normal.
It happens to all of us, I know what you're thinking. Why girls? :S
I wonder all the time, too.
But at the same time I'm very happy about that arrangement.
:)
Much Luck.
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