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fingering
15/m
last night my girlfriend was telling me she wants me to finger her next time we see each other. anyway i just want some tips on how to do it. i've never done so (nor has she ever been) and just want to do a good job.
thanks
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Well first off to get the girl into the mood is to start making outt and stuff,
touch her butt, and kiss her neck.
Then when you start to get into the pants,
start rubbing her clit slowly to get her wet,
then start fingering her with one finger and if it doesn't hurt her, then use two,
Be very gentle, unless she tells you otherwise.
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The best thing you can do is talk to her before you do it and during and ask her what she likes, wants and how to do it. She's the expert on her body and how it responds to this kind of sexual activity.
You need to communicate with her before attempting this otherwise you might be too rough or be groping around where and when you shouldn't. Essentially what you are doing here is your partner's masturbation for them. A lot of females focus on clitoral stimulation however each girl is different and some find it too intense.
Your girlfriend has never had this done before and you haven't done it before so you are both new to this and will be figuring things out together. There's no real expectation from her as she knows you're both learning and testing it out. This is why you need to communicate before, during and after.
Have her guide you and tell you what she's enjoying as well as not enjoying as you're doing it. It's the only way to learn as you cannot determine these things otherwise.
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Hi. I saw the last person said something pretty discouraging. First of all, make sure you both completely feel like you are ready for it. It really makes it that much special and intimate. As for tips...all I can tell you, being a girl, is be gentle...and don't just rush into it. Start by kissing and then you set the tone for when you actually do it.
Good luck.
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google- how to finger a girl. there's way more tips out there than anyone on here could ever tell you.
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