me and my boyfriend of 9 months, just broke up for good today i'm pretty sure. i can't take this. i love him so freaking much. i don't know what to do. i'm really thinking death, you don't understand. he means everything to me. he's mad cause i'm GROUNDED and can't do anything. omfg. i need help, sorry! please.
If your sure that you have broken up give him a couple days and then call him or talk to him at school. Just nicely explain why you were grounded and how you think he overreacted. Don't start yelling and dont say I love you. Only say that if you get back together.
Remember: things will get better and life will go on even if you don't get back together.
DeadMemories answered Sunday April 1 2007, 12:28 am: Don't commit suicide. You're boyfriend had no right whatsoever to break up with you because you're grounded. That's a tad bit immature if you ask me. :( Just talk to him at school and try to work things out and if he won't then he's not worth anymore of your time.
My boyfriend broke up with me for another girl (yeah I know different story here but I promise there is something good gonna come out of this!) and I cried for 2 weeks straight because he was my "first" and we had been together for going on 3 months and I didn't have anyone else so I begged him to take me back and now I realise that I he was nothing but a jerk anyways and if he broke up with me because of something like that then it's not worth my tears. :D Just try to think positive.
billymingace answered Saturday March 31 2007, 11:07 pm: well dont kill yourself cuz than you can never have him back. Talk to him and tell him your feelings, and if he loves you than you will be together, but if he doesnt than hes not worht it and there are plenty of other guys, and im sure that you will find the perfect one [ billymingace's advice column | Ask billymingace A Question ]
megan69 answered Saturday March 31 2007, 10:55 pm: first off, i am so sorry to hear that.
i know how it is to lose someone you love.
please do not look towards death AT ALL!
death is the worst possiable answer for your situation
hang in there
you may get back together
killing yourself or abusing yourself in anyway
will NOT solve one thing
and plus you will put your family and friends through a lot of pain and grief.
once your gone
YOUR GONE!
there is absoulutly no returning
you have to live life
its okay to cry and be very sad/miserable
but you will move on
unless you however get back together
which is possiable he may relize that he made a mistake
but please do not sit around the house crying
get outside and do something
worse comes to worse go see a doctor
no one wants death happening
sampler3 answered Saturday March 31 2007, 9:50 pm: don't look to death once your life is gone it will never come back i am looking toward cutting but thats not the answer either just hang on mabe it will came to a better ending try not to get grounded as much and mabe it will be fine just don't look for death cause i lost someone close for the same reason it causes so much pain [ sampler3's advice column | Ask sampler3 A Question ]
L0CACiiTA answered Saturday March 31 2007, 9:07 pm: Death wont get you anywhere, it wont solve a thing. Trust me i was suicidal for 1 yr and i had to go to thereapy and everything. No guy is worth your life even if rite now he may seem like everything trust me. Nobody is worth taking you life, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. If you want to talk leave one in my inbox ok. [ L0CACiiTA's advice column | Ask L0CACiiTA A Question ]
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