okay, i've liked this guy since like the beggining of 6th grade. were in 9th grade now, so about 3 and a half years. we have gone out before and he told me i was the only girl he ever loved..but he has only gone out with one girl since we broke up. he knows i sitll love him b c i tell him all the time but like thursday? night he asked me if i would be mad if he got a girlfriend, i said no, because its his choice and not mine & even though he'll get a girlfriend, ill always love him he said alright. then i just bursted into tears. i have no iudea what to say. i love him with all myheart. what should ido
ohxthexdrama answered Sunday March 25 2007, 12:33 pm: well i agree with everything the last girl said EXCEPT for the last part about meant to be.
i beleive that some things are meant to be, but they dont just happen with out you try. you can just be like, "well i believe in god and he wont elt me go poor" and sit on your butt. cause if you do, YOU WILL GO POOR! you understand where im gonig wit hthis?? you have to work for it.
let him know how you feel. calll him one night and, very casually, tell him how you feel.
i was going through the same thing but i said something, and found out we were both feeling the same thing! he's my everything.
andalixsays answered Sunday March 25 2007, 12:02 pm: I'm going through something pretty similar right now, except he doesn't know and the other girl is my best friend. So when you talk to him about it, make sure you don't say anything thats not true. Tell him that you really do want him to be happy, and that if both of you can't be happy, then at least he can. But if it's true, tell him that you don't know if any other girl could be good for him. They might not have feelings as deep as yours, and they might hurt him.
Another thing that helped me just think the whole thing through was to write a letter(not one that he'll ever see, but just to think it through.) saying why she's not right, why you are, and what you really want for him, as well as anything else youre thinking about. and he might come around and see that youre right, anyway.
I'm not a very spiritual person, but I do believe that if something's meant to happen, then it will. So if you two are really meant to be together, then this will all work out. Maybe it won't be right away, but i'm sure that he's worth waiting for. [ andalixsays's advice column | Ask andalixsays A Question ]
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