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cheating.
Okay well to make it short me and my boyfriend have been dating for a yr and 1/2. And a few months ago we started arguing alot. Im scared hes cheating on me and i dont know what to do. He seems annoyied with me all the time he never calls me he always yells and screams at me. And he never likes me looking through is phone he like has a fit if i ask to see it. And theres this girl that likes him. He wont admit she likes him but lets not state the obvious. So anyway i was looking at her myspace, she had a hat on and my boyfriend has the SAAAAME exact hat and they are both in the same lunch. They were sitting at the lunch table together with a few other people but sopposibly "He sits at a different table" I know its his hat he told me plenty of people have that hat. BUt i mean seriousily how many people in his lunch have that hat im sure not many. And when i looked at her comments on the pic soem girl was like haaa i wonder whose at that is.? Is it me or is he cheating on me i dont know? I know everyone says OHhh youll know when hes cheating on you BUT HELLO I DONT KNOW! some one please help.!!
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Wow, to me it does seem like something is going on. You need to talk to him and tell him striaght up how you feel. It may be hard but you need to. No relationship is good if you have no trust in each other. Ask him about the hat. Give him a little heads up say I don't know if we will be able to last anymore, or something around there. If he doesn't like you look through his phone and doesn't call you as much and everything else you said those are signs of cheating but again you never know. ♥
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It's time to step up and confront this dude. Tell him straight up that you're concerned he is cheating and you're really upset that you've been fighting so much. Honestly, relationships need to be about trust and communication. Easier said than done, yes, but it's absolutely true. If you can't trust him, what's the point of being with him? If you can't sit down and have a calm discussion about what's bothering you and the problems you two are having, what's the point of being with him?
Right now, it's impossible to tell if he is cheating. There's a chance he's just getting to be friends with that girl. Perhaps you could have a one-on-one mature conversation with the girl. Remind her that you ARE his GIRLFRIEND and you are concerned as to whether or not she still has feelings for him.
Before you go ahead and dump the guy, give him a chance to explain and see if you can talk things out. If things work out okay, it will help you to gain more trust for each other in the future.
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Well actually what the girl under me said isnt entirly true. Many guys are shaallow enough to cheat, im not saying your bf is im just saying the truth. Guys arent the same emotionally as girls, so what mite look like signs of cheating to you are maybe just him hanging out with his friends. It is just a hat and the phone thing they just like their space. Guys just dont like it when girls take over the relationship, so i think you should look for other signs of cheating because i think the reason you guys are arguing so much is your paranoia calm down and enjoy your relationship just watch closely to the things he does.
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i really think your overreacting.
its just a hat.
chill out lol.
mine was the same way, guys can be asshole, btu very few of them are low enough to cheat.
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