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when the right time is
in your opinion, should sex wait until marriage or before? (if before, then what age is appropriate) just wondering, thank youu
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i never want to fornecate...its weird, so i think, and i have reasons, that its better to wait until mariage. Its much easier becasue you KNOW your with them, your not second guessing youself, or afriad to say anymore, you feel comfy with what your doing. But if you truly feel you have to have sex before maariage. so be it just be aware that emotional, and some physical things may happen thatnyou didnt want o happen...im a cotholic just to let you know. because that might affect what i say
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Im defiantly all for until marriage. Its so much easier. The emotional pain you go through when you have sex before marriage is just horrible because your not as commited to the person and you have a chance of being dumped and heartbroken.If you fall in love with someone who is also a virgin and you decide to get married, its such a wonderful gift that you would share together. dont you think? like saving yourself for one person and one person only. I dont know if you think thats boring and lame, but i think its cool. I mean who wants to get married to someone , that you dont know who've they've "been" with. That is just my opinion .
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I think waiting for marriage is the way to go.. no need for condoms or birth control and almost no risk of being dumped a week later.
if it was before, i'd say at least 18 or 20+. that's when you at least know what you want in a relationship of have a lonterm relationship. <3
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Well I dont believe that it has to wait until marriage like ofcourse its sacred etc, but its down to the person and their own decision.
If the two people involved have thought it through and eally do care about each other and our prepared to take responsiblity if the girl becomes pregmant, I dont think there is anything wrong with it.
However, if the person is just having sex to be popular etc I dont condemn it I just think that there going to live life with a regret :)
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i respect those who wait until marriage, because i think its a good idea, but im not all "definitely wait until youre married". i think a good age would be about 17-18 so youre old enough to make a mature decision & know the consequences. also, i think sex in a casual dating relationship is lame.. i think itd be more appropriate in a serious relationship.
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My opinion, when you are ready. If that mean before marriage or until thats the person choice. When they understand the risks and they are comfortable with their decision. No one can tell someone when they can and cant have sex. Its a personal feeling. People know if they are ready or not, but having sex before you understand completely what its all about (to me) is dumb. If you dont understand what you are doing then you shouldnt be doing it at all.
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It should wait until you're ready, and that's different for everyone. As for the age, I think that physical age doesn't determine maturity...but the government disagrees. The appropriate age to have sex is the legal age in your area.
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it dependz on the situation if you are in love or not
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well my opinion is that sex shouldn't just be something that you do all the tiem, and with random people. However i also don't think it should wait till marraige even if you a Christian i think that would be really hard. I believe that as long as you love and trust partner and if you are willing to make those sacrfacies (like geting pregnat) then you are ready. I also think that you should probably be at least 18. Thats just my opinion
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I think you should wait until you are married- which should be the person you will love and cherish forever- STDs are out there- and just going out having sex with random people bears a high chance for getting one of the many of them out there.
So- yes.. you should wait until marriage!
Hope I helped!
--Jack
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Honestly, the only way to be truly sexually secure is to be married, because by that point you should know the person well enough to be completely comfortable with them sexually.
-Ryan
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Both. It should wait till you find your true love, who you want to spend your life with.
That is my opinion.
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