ive never been fingered but my bf is gonna finger me soon i think..and we're close and im ready and everything i just want to know will i bleed, like on his fingers? i use tampons so does that mean th hymen is already stretched out/popped?
straightup answered Sunday April 15 2007, 3:21 pm: Make sure he only uses one finger to start out. And after a couple times, you might want to use two. But it depends on how comfortable you are with it. As for the bleeding, you'll never know until it happens. He knows that this is your first time (I assume?) and it is possible that you might bleed. Just make sure he goes slow and there is lots of LUBE! (spit, lube, or you may have enough of your own!) [ straightup's advice column | Ask straightup A Question ]
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