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Typical fight over a guy...
Sorry if this gets long... well for about 6 months now I've liked this guy, let's call him Joe. I had this party and he came, and my best friend (who knew I liked him) decided she did too. We have rules about these situations between us, and since I said it first I "get him" I guess. Well she talks about him like she knows him when she only met him once. Plus she acts like I don't like him anymore. Lastly, he likes me too. We MiGHT go out. Should I tell her?
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maybe shes a big flirt and you should jst let her talk because if she is, Joes not the only guy and she'll get over him.:)
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You should definatly talk to her about this situation. If she's really crazy about this guy than maybe backdown for a little until she's moved on. Just don't forget about your friendship with your friend, a loss of a great friendship is totally not worth it for a guy. You just really need to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
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yes, deffinetly tell her. there is no claim on a guy whether one person saw him first or last. in a way, you two are against eachother in this situation not with eachother so if you likes you and you like him there should be nothing holding you back from asking him out.
now, if you two are really good friends and you think this can jeopardize your friendship then maybe reconsidering your 'rules' will help. tell her that because you really like him; you want her to know that if you ask him out she shouldn't be mad and don't want to stop being friends what so ever.
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