i really like this guy and my friend has told me that i could get him but i would have to be making the moves first and flirting with him and stuff cause he most likely wont do it first, im kinda a shy person so i need some tips on like flirting and stuff.
glessyx3 answered Friday November 24 2006, 6:45 pm: does he like you too?
pssst, if youre wondering, how can i tell him i like him and how can i tell if he likes me? heres my advice: dont tell him, SHOW him!
how DO you show him you like him? Smile, say hi, ask about stuff he cares about, laugh at his jokes, compliment him, make eye-contact, sit near him, use his name while talking to him, call, e-mail, and dont be afraid to act happy when he`s around. You dont want to come on tooooo strong, but you want to let him know that is he puts his lunch tray next to yours, you wont leave---you`ll smile. [:
Okay. Now how can you tell if he likes you back? Notice his behavior in return. Some guys flirt with everybody, so its hard to be sure when they like a particular girl. others are shy even when their hearts are pounding.
Usually, though, when a guy likes you, he looks at you, smiles, says hi, compliments you, laughs at your jokes, emails back, calls, and pays attention to you.
Its happening? Excellent! Enjoy his company. Or go ahead and ask him out.
Uh-oh, youre sending i-like-you signals, but getting none back? Hang on to your pride, & move on. there are millions of other guys.
Raeden answered Friday November 24 2006, 5:58 pm: I don't know how you know him and stuff, so I can only give some general tips.
First and most important is making eye contact. Smile when you two look at eachother. Talk to him about general stuff to make more contact easier. Try complimenting him on something you really like about him, his looks or how smart he is or whatever. Don't be too subtle, he is a guy after all, but don't drop it on him out of the blue, look for an opertunity in conversation where it would make sense to let him know he's hot, smart, or whatever he has that you like. You can gradually do this more often, and drop more hints, but not too subtle (guys are really oblivious). [ Raeden's advice column | Ask Raeden A Question ]
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