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this is so hard
My best friend, well shes in love with her boyfriend so much..they're been together for about 7 months, and well a couple months ago he had sex with his ex girlfriend. they took a break then they went back out again, now all they do is fight, and he treats her liek shit.. like really bad. Thing is, she wants to break up with him.. but she knows she cant. She says when things are good nothign in the world could be better. Last night he went to the movies with this other girl, and yeah its ok if he does but if she even talks to another guy he gets so pissed off.. What should she do, shes tried talkin to him, and right now they arent toegtehr because of last night, but shes so in love with him.
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There's nothing that you can do. This is something that is between them. Be there for your friend when she needs you. Listen a lot and if she asks for advice and try not to tell her what to do. Just tell her what you think about the whole thing. She needs to make her own decisions when it comes to this.
Here are my thoughts on the situation. Love means nothing here. There is a lot more to a relationship than love. There needs to be things like committment and trust for it to work. You can love someone a whole lot, but just not be compatible with them. It doesn't sound like your friend is compatible with her boyfriend at all at the moment. There are tons of people out there that your friend could be much happier with. Happiness is the most important thing. If she's not happy, then it's not worth it. People can grow, though, so it could work for the two of them in the future. For now though, it is best that they separate. There's just too much going on right now and it's hurting both of them.
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i understand you..you worried for her you should know that she wants to put up with that i think you should talk to him and tell him that she loves him so much and if he doesnt love her as much then he should leave her and stop hurting her more becuase he is making it worse by hurting her piece by piece..you know becuase eventually i think she will see he isnt the right one for her no matter how much she loves him. becuase you could tell when its just not ment to be if he loved her he would NOT treat he that bad..i hope i helped i think you should talk to him about it and her..tell her how he isnt good for her how He doesnt love her..if she thinks u just want to break them up then just leave her alone and then she will realize by herself he isnt the one....does she want to be treated like that and wasting her life..She should be able to talk to whoever she wants the relationship isnt good at ALL if its not treated equally..well i hope i helped..:)
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Well i think you should tell your friend to stick up for herself and say she doesnt care about him i nkow it seems hard but when you finaly do it you think it was easy...
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