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The other day, I posted something, about my friend hurting my feelings. But, I hardly went into ANY detail. So, now that I feel a little better, I'll go into some serious detail.
-I go to a rich snobby catholic school. Which means, every girl in there, is super mean.
-Even like the loser girls, arn't even nice, no one is.
-We don't do anything in our school, like dances & junk. [ another good reason to leave. i like schools that have activities & stuff, yeah i'm weird..]
-i may hang out with the popular group in school, but i'd rather have no friends at all.
If you were at my school, you'd understand. You can't walk away from your lunch table, without worrying their talking about you.
-Their all SUPER boring. The only way they have fun, is if their picking on someone else.
-None of the guys like us, because they think were all bitches. so, therefore you can't even have crushes on guys & stuff [ they may sound like a retarded reason to switch schools.. but come on, think about it.]
-Theirs only one girl who i actually like. But, sometimes.. she even gets on my nerves, because shes kinda a slut.
So, thats my school. I got in a big fight with my 'best friend' yesterday, I was saying how I was just thinking, only THINKING about switching schools. & shes like why? & i was like.. well its not like you talk to me alot anymore & stuff. [ Yeah, sounds like a stupid reason to leave.. not. Shes one of the few real friends i have.] & she got all defensive saying no im not, oh my god! & stuff.. so then, she got one of the MEANEST girls in the grade involved. & the girl ended up screaming at me & everything. So, i ended up leaving, & i cried myself for sleep, for two hours.
Give me one good reason why I should stay at that horrible school.
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It sounds like you may just be in with the wrong crowd. The whole school may not be bitchy. I'm sure you don't know all the groups of friends and each person individually well enough to be able to know for sure. Give it one more chance. Drop the friends you have and don't associate with the people you know. You're going to feel lonely at first, but it would be the same as if you went to a new school. Hopefully you can find some people that are in the same situation as you. If not, it's good practice and will help with adjusting to a new school setting. It will get you used to the feelings that you will be feeling there, but you'll still be in a place where you are comfortable and know where things are. Be optimistic about finding new friends there. Christians have a great set of morals and values and tend to be good people. I wish you lots of luck! :)
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The thing.. you need to change. Don't be like them. Don't just sit back and worry about things. You need confidence to get up.
You should STAND UP and walk away. Who cares what they think?
You would be a different person if you do your own thing. Don't let the popular bitch control you. Just take a stand and probably do something you haven't done before. If you do something, others will see that and probably drift away from the bitch attitude. Maybe there is a nice person there, you just haven't met them yet.
You should talk to people and try to get enough money for a dance or something. Something fun and exciting.
Yeah I wouldn't want to stay there either. If you don't have real/good friends.. you're unhappy there.. then I don't see a point in staying there. It's cutting off your life.
It shouldn't be horrible.
People are going to talk about you anyway. It's just how people are.
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I think that you should talk to the administration and get some clubs and dances going.
Meet guys, ask to get your seat moved in class to be by them. Get away from all of these shallow girls. [File a verbal assault case for the girl who screamed at you.] If guys can see that you aren't like them [but you're cool enough to be able to be], then you will have a boyfriend in no time. :]
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ok sweety you need to stop acting fake with those retarted stuck up bitches you call "Friends" i swear if you dont like them that much then fuck them i swear hell with them if they talk shit about you tell them to get over them selfs i swear if i went to your school id punch everysingle girl there im not joking i went through the same thing you did with this gay ass clique and no wonder you guys cant get any guys they all think those bitchess are fake and guys HATEEEEEEE with fuckin passsionn FAke ass snobby rich little girls . so sweety you need to do your self a favor and stopa cting fake around them and telll them that you honsetly dont like them and that youd rather be a loser than be fake like them so yeh you should switch schools unless you want to be fake for like ever..
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You shouldn't. If you want to leave and your parents are on board with that, you should leave. Your friend is being very immature. Tell her flat out that it's your decision, and that it really doesn't change anything. You can still be friends with someone you don't go to school with. If she still has a problem with it, then I'm sorry but she is not much of a friend. Do what's right for you. As for the other girl, well, you won't have to deal with her once you're out of there.
-Beulah =)
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Well there isnt a reason but i can understand why you left but i cant understand why your best friend didnt stick up for you i guess she wasnt really your friend...
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There isn't. Don't let her get to you, just go to another school and make a clean start. Really it sounds like the best thing to do in your situation. Just do it! Good luck :)
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