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I Hate Him!
ok me and my girl have been together for 4 months and 28 days and we are GREAT everything is great and we are really comfortable and well her dad is a peer prick i absolutly cant stand him. He used to beat her and stuff but now he will scream at her for nothin, And he thinks she spends to much time with me and we only get to actually spend time with each other one time a week and her dad dont trust us enough to even let us set in the car together at a store so that kinda shows how much he likes me. He also said that if her grades dont come up then she cant see me ATT ALL and i dont think eather one of us can handle that. Does anyone know what i can do to get him to leave her alone?......
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You need to tell someone otherwise one day he may just hit her to hard and when she hits the floor she may not stand up again.
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Hmmmm...Tuffy.It sounds like you should tell an adult or go to the authority.Oh heres a hotline that will hopefully come in handy
1-800-safeyouth
I'll pray for you guys k
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You can't get him to leave her alone.
You are her teenage boyfriend; their relationship is totally out of your control and none of your business beyond listening to her vent.
If he is abusive towards her, encourage her to speak to a counselor or someone who can get the authorities involved. That is the very best thing you can do to help.
Not allowing a teen to socialize, with a boyfriend or with friends, because of poor grades is a perfectly valid punishment in my opinion. If her father’s standards are unrealistic, then that is something she will need to work out with him, not something you can affect at all.
So in short: If he is abusive, encourage her to get help. Otherwise, be a shoulder for her to cry on and someone for her to vent to. This is her relationship with her father; they are the only two people who can fix it. You can’t meddle without causing even more trouble, so don’t try. Just listen, advise and maybe help her study.
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