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9th grade assessment
15/f. i'm sorry if this is confusing or long, but i feel so helpless and i have no idea what to do. every year my school has a 9th grade assessment. it is a really big project that takes about 2-3 monthes to complete, and you need to be in groups of 4 people ONLY. here is my problem. i had a group with two of my other friends. we all agreed, but then that day one of them texted me saying that they found two other people to work with. so i was stuck alone. i asked my other friend jenn if i could be with her and kelly, but they thought they were with two other people. it turns out that they thought that the two other girls that they were suppose to be with found other people, so i was in a group with jenn and kelly. we then found another member to make four. but then today jenn told me that her and kelly were going to be in a group with the two girls that they were suppose to be with in the first place. now i'm stuck again!
i've asked basically EVERYBODY, and everyone already has a group. the problem is that you need to sign up in groups by monday. i know i could go to the teacher that is organizing the project, but them he would put me with the losers that didn't have a group and i'll end up failing the project. i don't want to be in a group with just ANYBODY because this project and huge and if you fail it you have to go to summer school.
this is making me so upset to be ditched TWICE. i feel like i have no friends now. i feel like i'm about to cry. what am i suppose to do.
i know this was long, but it has really been bothering me so any adivice will really help me.
thanks.
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first of all you called the people that you had a group with your friends however if they ditched you like they did are they truly your friends. and jenn and kelly don't seem to be that great off friends either, i know this has been bothering you because i've been in the same situation but you said you don't want to work with the losers well have you thought that maybe they feel the same way and also how do you know those "losers" aren't nice and true friends. just because you don't want to work with people cause their losers then you're really brining this upon yourself, plus you're only in 9th grade you have your whole life ahead of you don't waste your time with people who in 10 years you won't even remember, try working with those so called "losers" and i bet you'll find that they are just normal pepople just like you. :)
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Ask if you can work on your own or work with the losers and say to your friends you were forced to and they were going to give you the answers.
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oK, UM...MAYBE YOU CAN GO THROUGH THE YEARBOOK, JUST TO MAKE SURE YOU ASKED EVERYBODY, AND IF YOU DID, YOU CAN ASK THE TEACHER IF SHE CAN MAKE ONE EXCEPTION IF YOU CAN BE IN A GROUP OF FIVE, IF SHE SAYS NO, THEN ...UM...EXPLAIN TO THE TEACHER THAT YOU DONT HAVE A GROUP, AND YOU DONT WANT TO BE PLACED WITH LAZY PEOPLE BECAUSE YOU CARE ABOUT YOUR GRADE, AND YOU WANT TO DO WELL ON THE ASSESMENT, AND YOU NEVER KNOW TEACHERS CAN BE UNDERSTANDING(SOMETIMES)AND SHE MAY MAKE AN EXCEPTION JUST FOR YOU! HOPE I HELPED,IF I THINK OF ANYTHING ELSE I WILL ELT YOU KNOW. GOOD LUCK! :)
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