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my bf said he wanted to take a break? what is that? I think it sounds like hes dumping me but he sed not exactly. whats going on? i tried asking him and he just says he kind of confused right now.
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I think he means hes not sure about his feelings towards you and by saying he needs a break ,he means hes not sure if he wants to go out with you but doesnt want to full on dump you in case he changes his mind. I think you should completely blank him out of your life until he desides to make contact.If he decides he still wants to go out with you but then says he needs another break 2 mins later then hes gonna know he do what ever he likes when he likes . Make sure he knows you respect his feelings but wont be pushed around
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Well, don't rush to conclusions. He may be a little stressed out so just wait about a week. He may not be dumping you, just give him a little room, but keep your eye on him!
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hes basically dumping you but trying to keep his foot on you so he has a secure spot to come running back to if his other relationships dont work out. or he really likes you but wants to see if theres something better or test your relationship.i personally dont believe if you truly want to be with someone then you wouldnt have to go exploring because you already know the person you want and theres no confusion about it
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Taking a break doesn't mean he wants to break up with you. It just basically means that he needs some space to himself. He may be getting bored in the relationship, or he is just confused on how the relationship is going. While you guys are "apart", don't bother him and try pumping him with questions, or chances are, he probably will end the relationship. So, really, just let him do his thing, and see how it goes.
Good Luck!
Jess♥
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More than likely, someone else caught his interested - but if that doesn't work out, he wants to keep this relationship open and come back to you.
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He needs some time to think about where his feelings for you stand, give him some time to think it through
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A break is when you need some time to yourself.
If he's confused right now, you need to ask him.. if he meant seeing other people.
Sometimes that's what a break means..
To see other people.. and if that doesn't work out.
You go back.. being together.
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It means he needs time to himself for a while so he can think about things. A break isn't a break up. You two will still be boyfriend and girlfriend but he just needs time without hanging out or calling eachother. Trust me, I've suggested a break with my boyfriend before because I was feeling a bit suffocated. He just needs time to breathe.
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