okay so theres this boy in one of my classes and i think he's really cute and i want to get to know him more..but how do you like "get to know someone" ...like if i just randomly went up to him and started talking he'd be like "um?" ..because we've never talked before..so how can i become his friend without being too weird about meeting him? if that makes sense?
today i added him as a friend on myspace though...(he hasnt been on though so he didnt accept me yet.)
confused_girl777 answered Saturday November 11 2006, 12:10 am: Ok umm I have a large amount of guy friends and heres my tips:
If you know any of his friends get to know them then let them introduce you two. A good way to get a guy to open up to you is by his friends. Im only 13 but all except 4 of my friends are guys.
Maybe start doing homework together, if he plays sports talk to him about it. Then slowly build a relationship with him. It pays off. If you see some of my questions ull see how me and my guy friend act. Anyway, when you meet him DONT complain about your day or tell him hes really cute or anything like that. You don't want to creep him out.
croat answered Friday November 10 2006, 11:24 pm: well the basics would be that to take it slow and there is no need to rush on to him. you said that you had a class with him why not ask for help on something like a short homework thing. now the trick is, and take this from a guy's point of view, if he stays with you after then homework is down then he might be interested and is trying to find out if you are as well. it also helps if you start up a conversation start small like something in class and then go out into a movie as the conversation goes on like the new bond movie or something that interests you.
Browneyes006 answered Friday November 10 2006, 11:23 pm: walk up said hi and ask how his day is doing. or maybe said hi and maybe think of like something about class your guys are in. or yet if you don't or do know his name ask what his name is. just go with the flow for awhile saying hi and how are you. and maybe later have a freind or maybe look up if your in your teens go to www.teenmag.com or Seventeen.com sometimes there be advice about boys and stuff. pretty much I say for now. but if you need more information or maybe it not what your looking for let me know. hope I help [ Browneyes006's advice column | Ask Browneyes006 A Question ]
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