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alrite so ...
Im kinda popular I guess.
Most boys are mean to me in school and then out of school all they wanna do is hookup with me.
Its weird, but they dont LIKE LIKE me.
I mean , no guys really like me for who i am , they just wanna hookup with me for some reason.
And I dont get it , im not even that pretty and im not that skinny.
Ive never had a boyfriend and I want a guy to actually like me.
Whats the deal here?
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usualy younger guys act mean to a girl because they like her, the reason they do that 2 you is cuz they like you...they probably find you attractive.
and just to clear somthing out not all guys like skinny girls i know alot of guys who find thick girls sexy and dont worry about findin the guy who loves you for you cuz he's there and your gonna find him k
as for the mean time dont let guys take advantage of you and playing hard to get makes them want you more so give it a try
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they apparently think you'll put out.
this could or could not be the case (hopefully not) the best advice i could give you would be to N0T hookup with them, but continue to be their friends. the being mean to you is probably just flirting. eventually a guy will come along that will like you for you, and not sex.
just keep being friendly and keep your eyes open for the right guy.
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Flirt and smile more.
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i know this may be kind of harsh, but maybe they want to hook up with you because you know you'll hook up with them, and they don't have to worry about being turned down. to change this, don't hook up with every single guy that tries to with you. start talking to them and getting to know them rather than hooking up with them rigth away. then you might find someone you like, and that likes you back, and doesn't JUST want to hook up. good luckkk :)
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Okay, so you're popular. That kind of solves part of your problem right there. Most guys that are jocks and preps or whatever group the "popular" guys are in, all they wanna do is hook-up with the "popular" girls. There is really nothing you can do about the situation, mainly, because you just need to wait for the right guy to come along. And that's no joke. I know it sounds cheesy, but it is the absolute truth. I would just wait for the guy that loves you for you, someone you click with, and someone who doesn't really care what people label you as. I know this guy sounds impossible to find, but trust me, he's out there. The best advice I can give is not to give in to those guys, and just do your best to focus on school, friends, and family for right now.
Jess♥
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This is not that unusual. A lot of really immature guys can act this way and it is confusing for the girl. Do not be taken in by this attention after school. The guys are most likely trying to impress each other by being jerks and too cool for you at school, and by being mean, they are trying to wear down your self-esteem. After school, they figure they can manipulate you further by using you now that they have put you down and hurt your self-esteem. Get it? Some abusive people treat other people and animals in this way as a method of manipulation. Gangs use violence as an extreme form of this to break someone down and gain loyalty, horse-trainers will break a horse by physically abusing the animal and this is what these boys are doing in a sense. You need to stand up for yourself at school and after school. Do not let yourself be disrespected or used by any of these lame jerks! In the future you will find guys that really like you for you and would never want to hurt you or use you. These fools need to be ignored and if they continue to harass you, you need to speak up to your teachers, parents and authorities.
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