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I'm 13/f. But my boyfriend was 16.
1. My step father had started sayig saying That if me and him had sex then that would be statitory rape, consensual or not.
Is it possible for him to get into trouble for having sex with me?
2. My parents put a restraing order against him. Once I'm not a minor anymore is it possible for that restraining order to count like would he get in trouble for being with me again?
--Sid
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It depends on what state you're in and in accordance with state law. Your boyfriend, being 16, can be considered "of age" but you being 13 certainly falls under statutory rape. Furthermore, and I'm not trying to be critical, you should reconsider sex at your age. It's an emotional and oftentimes traumatic experience, especially when you're so young. Women aren't able to legally consent until the age of 16 in most states, anyway. Take care of yourself :-)
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I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 21. That would be statitory rape..but hasn't really affected us.
The legal age is 18. So if he was 18 and older, and had sex with you, that would get him into trouble since your under 18. So your step dad is wronge.
I don't think its possible for him to get into trouble, but it could be. I could help you more if you posted the state you live in...
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Depending on where you live, your boyfriend can't get in trouble with the law. If he's under the age of eighteen, your parents can't really hold him up for statitory rape. Don't take my word for it, but i'm pretty sure i'm right.
- The only person he can get in trouble with is your dad probably.
Once ou turn 18, the restraining order won't mean shit. YOu can do whatever you want & he can't get in trouble.
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If you allowed him to have sex with you, then he can't get in trouble, at all.
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im not shur but i think it can still be considerd as rape i think you mum and dad have gone a bit over the top puting a restraing order on him are they mad your gona grow up sometime and there will be nothink thaey can do about it good luck you will need it with a mum n dad luck dat
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You don't say where you are but in the UK the age of consent is 16. So even if the person under this age agrees to sex it can still be classed as statutary rape. This means that, yes, he can get into quite serious trouble, particularly if your parents have already taken steps like a restraining order.
The law decided that anyone under the age of consent is too young to make that decision themselves, so the law steps in to make it for them. Variations on this ruling will apply where ever you are. If you are in the US the age may change from state to state.
The restraining order prohibits him from contacting you or coming within a specified distance. If he breaks this, he could be arrested.
Once you are no longer a minor, sex would not be classed as rape as long as you have agreed, (at any point you should change your mind and he does not stop, it would be deemed as rape).
The restraining order may have its own clauses that you would need to check.
Hope that helps.
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