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Ok so i'm gonna start working out and i would like to just start working on my trouble areas so what are some good exercises to do for my stomach my arms and my thighs????? please help

mikectf or whatever said EXACTLY what i was going to say, because it's the truth.

start running.
start off with like, half a mile.
do that for a week, add gradually.

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whats is the preppy look. wats the preppy attitude. i am sorta of a prep...all my frends that i hang out with r preps. how do i become a prep

This question if pathetic. D

on't label yourself because you DON'T & i repeat, DON'T have to dress a certain way to be friends with somebody. That's lame, so your saying just because of the way you dress, they will stop being your friend or something?

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i know a lot of you guys are probably gonna tell me i dont need to lose weight
and everyone calls me tiny so im not gonna tell you how much i weigh
but since everyone is calling me tiny and skinny and wish they had my body
i feel like i NEED to be tiny
but i still feel like im chunky
so if anyone has anything to help me to lose weight that would be great
and also i need something that will work fast
im going to Florida in February
14/f

Really, your question is bizarre. If you could tell us your weight and height, it would really help, although sometimes that isn't that accurate on guessing what your body could look like.

So, i'm going to tell you to do something, then you can write a question to my page.

Go on good & type in "BMI calculator".
Do everything, and write back to me telling me your bmi, & be honest when you tell me.

That is what will tell you if you actually need to lose weight, or NOT.

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everyone says cardio is the way to lose weight.
well is ddr considered cardio?
cos i like playing it, but like i dont like running.
so could i play ddr and still be doing cardio then do like squats and crunches on the ablounge to tone the muscles?

please help.
other cardio ideas [not running] would be appricated.
thankss

I would definately say that you doing DDR would be a lot better than you sitting there on the couch eating chips or something. Although i'd probally have to say that it's not equailent to running or riding a bike, it's better than nothing. So, continue to do DDR but each week or so, up the time you do it. After a while, you should really try running. I mean, running is great for you. It realives stress, it's relaxing, it's good for you, it's something that you can do easily, and once you start running and get better, you'll be excited to set goals and work towards them. Running really isn't as bad as you might think.

So, goodluck. Also, if it's summer time, riding your bike for like an hour is good, but not casual riding, like go on big, long roads with hills and go fast.

Goodbye

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on itunes whne it says "convert to acc" wat does that mean?
thank you

i have no idea, sorry =|

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hi, i was wondering if anybody knew how i could lose some flab on my thighs (inner thigh) and how quickly could i lose it? thanks

run

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Right on my lipline there is a realy small pimple sort of like a bump. You can't really notice it though. It is not in the corner of my lipline nor the middle but closer to the middle. I get it from time to time and i don't know what it is. I sometimes start to freak out and think its herpes. What can it be?

a pimple

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ok. so i am a 14/f and im about 125 pounds. i have a chubby stomach and a shubby face. but not overly chubby. the only thing i dun like is my chin. like i dont have a double chin but like i will one day. is there anyway to loose some fat around my face??

I agree with your first answer to this question, if you lose weight over-all, your face will eventually get thinner, although it's not a promise.

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Okay so I like this boy and I thought he liked me but all he wants to do is have sex. Should I or should'nt I? I always told myself I would never think of things like this I would always just say no, but for some reason I think this is the boy for me and i wouldnt wanna ruin anything by saying no. What should I do?

say no.

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Where can you buy skinny jeans?

along with everybody elses answer, i do not suggest these 'skinny jeans' if you have any type of hips. stick to the boot-cut or wide legged. they do nothing for you unless your super skinny. just some other type of advice.

&& sry i didn't mention any stores, the other ppl did a good job.

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So the whole day today, I kept getting bit by mosquitoes!!..they itch like CRAZY. But the crazy thing is...each bump is like QUARTER SIZE. I'm not even kidding/exagerrating. It's SO big..I have like a total of maybe 6 all over my upper body. Is this normal?! ..I've never had bites this big ever!..Please help. :)

tottaly normal. i've had bites bigger than the size of a baseball. your fine.

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Okay,so i have a friend who started to use"lean blance" diet pill.
She lost 25 pounds in to weeks.
I really want to use it.
My mom isnt a fan of pills,but hear is my story.
Last summer,i worked out and took dance classes.
Somedays i would work out for 3 hours others 2 hours.
But everyday i worked out ate the right food.
No result,after 4 months.
Zip,nada
So yes i have anger about it,because i pushed myself to a place ive ever pushed myself.And im proud of that.
But,im not happy with the outcome.
So i talked to my mom about it but she doesnt want me to.
The sideafixs are headachs or stomach promblems.
Can,some one help thinks of ways of trying to help my mother understand.
Because she says workout,and it MAKES me so mad.
Because i worked my ass off,and nothing to prove of it.
Its so hard to lose weight.
And im not happy with my self,at all.
Can people give me suggestions as to what to tell my mom ?Please

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First off, how old are you & how much do you weight.

Check your BMI on a website, and see if your techinacally overweight, if so, then heres help.

You might have a thyroid(sp) problem. This is something that controls your whole body. Your doc could do blood work to find out.

If your not overweight, maybe you have no weight to lose!

i'm not sure, but pleaes do'nt obsess over this. Maybe over dance you gained muscle & lost fat, so it equaled out. (muscle weighs more than fat)

Hope i helped, see your doctor for help on this issue if its tht big of an issue.

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I have a scar on my face that i have had since i was 2 and I just recently got plastic surgery to make it less noticable but it is going to take a while to completely healed and everyone asks me why i always have my hair in my face and i can't stop it it is just a habit. How do i raise my confidence?

Well, considoring the reason why you got the scar, could make this situation tottaly different. If you were in a horrible accident, then thts completly rude but if you like got it with a curling iron or something, just laugh it off! it works, trust me. Don't hide the scar, theres nothing you can do. Maybe you can put some coverup on it to make it less noticable?

As far as raising confidence, do well in school, exercise, write stories/poems, read..theres lots. Confidence is sort of like releiving your stress, i suggest you start running.

Just always remember, when your grown & in college or whatever, its not going to matter who made fun of you! What is going to matter is what kind of grades you got, what kind of friends you hung out with (ie. if you hang with ppl tht smoke & drink thts bad, but if you hang with good students or nerds, its not going to matter! )

Alright, just remember, always be your self.

best of luck

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If the guy tries not to cum during sex and is successful, is there still a possibilty of getting pregnant???

If the penis goes into the vagina, then YES there is a chance of getting pregnant. Even with a condom, birthcontrol, and the pull-put method.

Kids really needa face the fact tht sex leads to babies!!!

(sorry this kind of question has been asked 1000 times before plus.)

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I'm considering getting a circumcision since I heard it is less likely to get STD's. The only problem is that some of my friends said that getting a circumcision makes your penis smaller. I don't know how since it is just getting your foreskin cut. Is this true or not?

Whats a circumcision? and why would u get it done?

i'm just wondering && as far as the answer, sorry i can't help.

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Hey, I had my belly button pierced, and it was pierced with a customary ring. Its just a plain ring held together by a ball. The ball wont twist off, and I have no idea how to get it out to change it. Thank you.

I'm not to sure exactly sure how to do it, but don't play with it too mcuh becaues it might get infected. How about you go to a place that peirces & have them help you.

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i have short hair about up to the end of my neck. and it's black,and incase this helps i'm african american. i was just wondering what color highlights i should get. and i was just also wondering if higlights damage your hair? please be honest b/c i don't want my hair 2 break down for nothing.thanks in advance

I just want to let you know, highlights damage your hair. Almost anything you do to your hair can damage it!
I'm not sure what color h-lights you should get because they will all look greattt.

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i have a picture of myself that was taken outside, but i want to change the background from outside to just all white. is there a free way to do this on my computer? it's hard to just fill it in on paint (unless there's a trick or another way), because I wind up getting the white on me or i wind up erasing part of myslef if i try & erase the background. what else can i do for free? thanks!

maybe download photoshop. i'm not sure how this would work. i'm not sure!
i wished i knew
i'm gunna check back on this too see what asnwers you got. i'm curious.

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Okay , Can you get pregant if you have sex on your period ?

yess! be safe hun, wear a condom, get birth-control.

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hey,
do you know how to make ur lips bigger. without surgery or lips plumpers. Thankx

Line your lips with lipliner add color then add clear lipgloss.

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