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i really want to lose weight
i know a lot of you guys are probably gonna tell me i dont need to lose weight
and everyone calls me tiny so im not gonna tell you how much i weigh
but since everyone is calling me tiny and skinny and wish they had my body
i feel like i NEED to be tiny
but i still feel like im chunky
so if anyone has anything to help me to lose weight that would be great
and also i need something that will work fast
im going to Florida in February
14/f
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Really, your question is bizarre. If you could tell us your weight and height, it would really help, although sometimes that isn't that accurate on guessing what your body could look like.
So, i'm going to tell you to do something, then you can write a question to my page.
Go on good & type in "BMI calculator".
Do everything, and write back to me telling me your bmi, & be honest when you tell me.
That is what will tell you if you actually need to lose weight, or NOT.
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I am going to use you as an example for whoever may read this of exactly how not to approach a weight loss goal. You admit that people tell you that you are tiny, your main focus is your stomach, you want it done fast and you're 14 years old.
You did not once mention that you want to do it because you want to be healthier, feel more energized- you are just concerned with the end result for your trip to Florida and playing up to this ridiculous image that you have created of yourself.
You say you NEED to be tiny- I am going to tell you that in the long run; you can have a shredded 6 pack, slender legs- the whole deal...but all of that means absolutely nothing if you don't put your health before your image. You don't NEED to be tiny- you WANT to be tiny; however you NEED to be healthy.
You're 14 and have the opportunity to start this the right way- focusing on how you can make a healthier more energized you. That's the foundation to ultimately not only feeling good- but looking good as well.
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oh my lord.
don't you dare go anorexic on us.
it's not healthy.
if other people say you are tiny, i'm sure you are. i used to think exactly like you, but you wrong. i'm sure you aren't overweight by a single pound.
there's no way you can lose weight that fast unless you go on something called a crash diet & i pray to God i did not just remind you that you could do that & that you already knew, but weren't crazy enough to do it. crash diets are dangerous.
i know you're going to probably give me like a 2, but i'm just trying to warn you.
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