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How to get him
Ok so theres this guy i like. We talk all the time at school. I want to ask him to hang out without sounding too desperate or clingy. We have none of the same friends. Any advice? :)
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just ask him. but make it sound casual, and don`t make it sound like it`s not an option. say something like .. "hey, wanna hang out this weekend ? if you have other plans, that`s alright. i was just thinking that it`d be fun to go _____." or something to that point. :] and some other advice: if you want to get to know him better, don`t go to the movies because when you`re at the movies, you`re not really talking. something like bowling, roller skating, or going to the mall would be perfect. i hope i helped!
-Niks.
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there's no problem with asking. as long as you keep it light and make sure it sounds like its an option. 'we need to hang out sometime' is okay if youre talking to a girlfriend, but guys can get kind of wigged out by that claiming kind of behavior. just ask, its easy to bring in after he makes a joke and makes you laugh. when you start talking again, as long as youre ready, just say something along the lines of 'do you want to hang out sometime?' keep it simple, and just feel it out yourself. i hope it works out <3
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anytime you`re with him,just be like "hey you seem pretty cool,you wann hang out?"how could he say no to that we someones complimenting him?its bound to work,and after a while im sure you will be friends and hang out all the time.good luck.=]
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I'd say go for it. Just build up your confidence and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. Don't sound to scraed though. Just when your ready and maybe around him strike up a convo. Talk and laugh a lil and maybe just as one of you goes to leave or something be like "Hey do you wanna hang out sometime?" Just wait til your ready. Hope it all works out for you.
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just say hey we have so much fun in skool together that we should hang sometimes. itll open up our "cliques" and introduce us to more peopl. do yuu wanna catch a movie sumtime?
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Find something you have in common with him. Find a moment to tell him something interesting about that hobby and ask him if he wants to go. Maybe like a concert or a specific movie that you both would like. That way you sound like you just want to hang out and not sound like your clinging or anything.
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