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TELL ME ABOUT YOU: hello. i`m nikki. i`m just your normal thirteen year old filipino living in indiana with lots of friends, mad tennis skills, and an unofficial diagnose of ADD. i`m a naturally silly person, and i won`t lie to you on this one .. i`m pretty complicated. and i`m anything BUT shy. most people say that i`m really outgoing. you either love me, or you hate me. with me, there`s no in-betweens.SO .. YOU GIVE ADVICE: yes, i do. i`ve been through just about anything. i`ve been in contact with backstabbers and whores. i`ve been peer-pressured, and yes .. i`ve had boy problems. i`ve suffered deaths of friends and family, and i`ve had problems as simple as finding a decent project for science fair. i mean, that`s what i`m here for. i must warn you, though .. i WILL be brutally honest with you if i have to.
DO YOU PLAY ANY SPORTS ?: i`m dedicated to one sport, and one sport only. and that is tennis. i play number one singles for the flashes tennis team, and i try to be the best player i can. i fell in love with it because it`s the only thing that won`t leave me. no matter what. i think that it`s the best sport in the world. and that will never. ever. change. i mean .. i play tennis to live. and i live to play tennis. i think that it was truly my first love. hehe.
TELL ME ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS: my friends are basically amazing. i have a lot of friends, but i only have a few best friends that i tell everything to. it`s hard for me to trust people these days, but these amazing individuals will always have my trust. and i love them all to death.
janice barnd. andrea decamp. caroline alora. tyler rogers. colin bowles. chris nolder. david gerth. justin osborne. lindsey green. sammie stanley. chessie zappia. leah hall. marshall chappell. ethan gilmer.
DO YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND ?: yes, i have a boyfriend. :] his name is david, and i love him very much. we played tennis together, and we`ve been pretty inseperable ever since.
DO YOU LIKE MUSIC ?: music is basically my life. i play the viola in the franklin township strings orchestra. and i freaking love it. i`ll like any kind of music, as long as it has a good beat and bumpin` lyrics. throw an alternative rock band cd infront of me and a pair of headphones, and i swear i`ll fall in love with it. i swear it i swear it. because like i always say. music is feelings that you weren`t able to put into words before.
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say someone picks on you and such.. and makes rude comments, how do you stand up for yourself? because i dont have the confidence to go and say something if they were to say something to me or my friends? how do i gain the confidence to do this or what do i say? i dont want to sould like a prissy so any tips?
wow, i HATE bullies with a passion, and i myself have dealt with them before. but i`ve been picked on enough to know almost exactly how to deal with them. first of all, don`t let them get to your head. bullies basically have no life, and they`re lame. if you can`t get anything to say, make sure you have friends with you. that`s what they`re there for - to back you up. and trust me, they`ll do their job well.
other than that, you can try to outsmart them with words. don`t make rude comments to them, but rather say something smart. usually something that makes the whole class laugh works. if you say something smart and the group of people you`re with laughs, their self-confidence goes down to the size of a ping-pong ball.
but most of all, just remember that you`ve done nothing to them. if you want to keep it short and simple, just say something like, "if you had a life, you`d stop ruining mine." and walk away. simple as that. i really hope this works out, and i hope i helped. :]
-Niks.
hey;
this is really random, but what does "BAMF" stand for??
-thanks
BAMF = Badd Ass Mother Fuckerr.
:] -Niks.
Last night I had a horrible dream. In my dream, my boyfriend left me for my best friend. We got into a little argument, he broke up with me and started dating her. I was heartbroken. I couldn't sleep after I woke up. It is really bothering me. I like this guy so much and I don't want him leaving me for someone else especially my best friend. What could this dream mean if it means anything?
don`t worry about it. you might be stressed about something, and that might be triggering your dreams. i assure you that it`s just a one-time dream, and it probably doesn`t mean anything. if it helps, talk to your boyfriend about the dream. i`m sure that it`d help. i really hope i helped. :D
-Niks.
Ok so theres this guy i like. We talk all the time at school. I want to ask him to hang out without sounding too desperate or clingy. We have none of the same friends. Any advice? :)
just ask him. but make it sound casual, and don`t make it sound like it`s not an option. say something like .. "hey, wanna hang out this weekend ? if you have other plans, that`s alright. i was just thinking that it`d be fun to go _____." or something to that point. :] and some other advice: if you want to get to know him better, don`t go to the movies because when you`re at the movies, you`re not really talking. something like bowling, roller skating, or going to the mall would be perfect. i hope i helped!
-Niks.
so i was just wondering. what do you look for in the opposite sex? like, for guys, do yu like preppy or sporty grls, etc. and for grls, do you like jocks or nerdy-ish, etc. and describe yourself, too. i'm just curious what people look for. thx!
i`m pretty much into the jock kinda guy. plays sports .. and they have to be smart. you know, dumb people are like total turn-offs for me. andd there`s nothing wrong with liking nice eyes, hair, and smile too. :] i hope i helped some.
-Niks.
Alright, i was wondering if it's normal for someone to go to homecoming alone? do alot of people do that? also what is the right attire for attending a homecoming dance? I'm a freshmen so this is my first one and I don't know a thing.. thanks alot
it`s definitely normal for someone to go alone to homecoming. you get to dance with all the ladies, you know. haha. and people usually have a blast hanging out with their friends. guys usually wear something like a tuxedo without the overcoat. something semi-formal. you know. :] i might add .. hope you have fun at your homecoming! haha. i hope i helped. -Niks.
well i'm going to a baseball game with 2 friends and the k id i like.. i really want to impress him and i dont know anything sbout mbaseball buti really want to be cute.. I need to know how to act, what to wear, and stuff about baseball. I REALLY WANT TO IMPRESS HIM!!
to me, not knowing about a sport is the perfect time to get to know a guy you like. dress for the occasion, but make it cute. wear a baseball jersey with soffe shorts and a cap. make your hair cute, and wear sneakers. then get the guy you like to teach you the game of baseball. you two will be communicating, and at the same time maybe you`ll get to know a little about him. :] i hope i helped. -Niks.
okay.
last year i had a crush ona guy. he just broke up with his long term girlfriend.
he asked me for help, i did, he liked me, after a while. 4 months into our relationship he says he loves me, 2 weeks later, he is back with his ex.
he never officially ended it with me, i never got closure, im still not over him, he meant a lot to me. its looking like he is going to break it off with his g/f again. hes starting to come back to me. i want him back but i dont think i could take him, what do i do?
babe, the only advice that i can give you is to not take him back. i know you might still like him, but it seems to me like he`s kindasorta using you. look - he goes to his ex .. then he goes to you .. he goes back to his ex .. and he`s starting to come back to you. do you see a pattern there ? he`s switching back and forth between the two of you. so my advice - don`t fall for his sweet talk. or anything, for that matter. i`ve dealt with these types of boys before, and if they do something bad once .. they`re more than likely going to do it again. and i don`t want anyone getting hurt here. i hope i helped.