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guys are lame.
okay.
last year i had a crush ona guy. he just broke up with his long term girlfriend.
he asked me for help, i did, he liked me, after a while. 4 months into our relationship he says he loves me, 2 weeks later, he is back with his ex.
he never officially ended it with me, i never got closure, im still not over him, he meant a lot to me. its looking like he is going to break it off with his g/f again. hes starting to come back to me. i want him back but i dont think i could take him, what do i do?
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if he didn't break up with you well let's put it this way he's cheating on you what you should do is go to a nice quiet spot like a spa or a cafe and who knows you could even meet the love of your life and if he that desperate for his ex foget about him he's useless and your to good for him!
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babe, the only advice that i can give you is to not take him back. i know you might still like him, but it seems to me like he`s kindasorta using you. look - he goes to his ex .. then he goes to you .. he goes back to his ex .. and he`s starting to come back to you. do you see a pattern there ? he`s switching back and forth between the two of you. so my advice - don`t fall for his sweet talk. or anything, for that matter. i`ve dealt with these types of boys before, and if they do something bad once .. they`re more than likely going to do it again. and i don`t want anyone getting hurt here. i hope i helped. <3Niks.
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Even though you want him back , I wouldn't take him back and if you can't handle being friends with him, then just cut off all connection.
It sounds to me like to him whenever him and his girlfriend break up, you're the rebound, the girl who comforts him and makes him feel good and whatnot until he gets back together with his girlfriend. You could've also just been a ploy to make the other girlfriend jealous.
It just seems to me if you were to get back together with him, if his girlfriend wanted him back, he'd drop you again, and you shouldn't put yourself through that all over again. :/ He doesn't deserve you.
So I suggest remain friends, or nothing at all.
I hope I helped.
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Seems to me like he's using you. He only comes to you when his girlfriend isn't there. Don't let him you use you like that. I know you like him I understand but don't let him take advantage of you. If he does come back to you talk to him and tell him why he left you like that and whent to his ex if there's really no answer than its abvious that he's using you and you don't want that right?. End it before its to late. That's my advice to you. Good luck!! Hope everythings works well for you!
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