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5 feet brown wavyish curly hair i where mostly mini skirts and go to a private school

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I go to a private school and we have p.e. on thursdays and that is the day that all the public schools get out early there is this group of perverts that always stare at the girls doing p.e. then one day after school i wa by the wall with my friend i waited for her to get back from the bathroom all of a sudden all these boys were looking at me from over the wall and in the tree when my friend got back they were hitting on us then this guy named chris, and bryan from my school came over and they were being really rude like cusing, and flippen them off i kinda like bryan what 2 do. help me

what ever you do don't let anyone know about your secret crush and you should be just as mean back to the perverts

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What are good ways to get curly hair without getting a perm or using a curling iron?

braid you hair or use non burnin curlers using gel and curls

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Okay, so I'm 14/f and at my school, there's this guy named Johnny. He's really silly and nice and funny and uberly cute. I think he's a junoir or a sophmore..either one. I really like him and I want him to notice me more. I already talk to him at lunch and after school (like 10min?) and that's about it. Maybe a short greeting in the hallways. He's in the school play and I stayed after once to see but we couldn't talk since he was in a lot of scences and the teacher was REALLY strict about his practices.

My mom and dad are seriously STRICT and think of the WORST possible situation that may occur if I'm with a boy (like get pregnant, raped, stoned, etc) so I can't really hang out with him unless other GIRLS are there. The thing is that I don't have many girl friends since I'm a tom boy. All my close friends are guys and if I invite any of my friends, they'll immediately detect my crush on him which is bad...

Is there anything I can do to hang out with more? Like how should I get his number or aim sn? Or maybe go to the movies with him with other friends and NOT flirt so noticeably?

Maybe if you had your parents let you go to the movies with someone they really trust or have them drive you and pick you or even watch a movie at home while they stay in there room

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there is this guy at my school.i went out with him last year and now he wont leave me alone!! he asked me out already asked me out this year but i dont like him!
How can i tell him to leave me alone politly?

You should try to tell him that there is no felling you have towrd him but you would like to be friends hope it help

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Okay
I dont think im pregnant,but im paranoid about it.
I had sex with a condom but then got close to doing it again without a condom , but we only did it for like 3 seconds and then I said stop because i was scared.
My boobs have been hurting lately and I had a stomach ache but I didnt throw up.
He tells me he thinks im fine and i hope hes right.

What should I do??

I think that the best way to deal with this would be to maybe even tell your mom about this because if you don't there would be that whole problem if you are pregnet this could really a thing that you should tell your mom, friend, school cousler, doctor, even if you have to go this low tell a teacher, brother, DAD, don't worry they can't get mad if you are it was a mistake you will never make again wait and see if you are late by three days with you period but do not let your boyfriend tell his buddies even talkig to your boyfriends mom would be ok!
-hope it helps
-brylover

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OKay, so theres this kid who seemed really into me, and he calls me and stuff, not like long convos but calls me sometimes. and he talks to me online. but like in school its like he doesnt know me & i want to get him to notice me even more and get him to know that i like him. but im not a very forward person so it cant be like drastic things lol. please help

I think if he is to embaressed to see you at school then it is not worth getting you to notice you. You could also just really comfront him about the problem

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okay
so i think im pretty popular
alll my friends are popular , our whole group is and stuff.
but like, it doesnt seem like i have that many goooooddd friends and then just friends i know a little bit are just like temperaroy and we dont hangout unless like we are at a party or sitting next to eachother..

how can i like make more GOOOD friends?

I think if they are to embaressed to be seen with you or are mean they aren't your friends you should see if there is even someone who isn't very popular would treat you doffrently and don't worry hoe your friends will react thats the right thing to do

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In my 2nd period, this guy who was my best friend last year sits behind me. Just so you know, we aren't even really friends anymore. Every single thing he says is so perverted and it makes me feel really uncomfortable.
Today when I was walking down the hallway five little sixth grade guys came up to me and one of them said, "HE TOLD ME TO SPANK YOUR BUTT!" And then me and my friend looked at each other and were like, "Um, excuse me?" And just shook our heads and kept walking. A few minutes later I heard their voices again and one of them was saying, "SLAP IT!"
It's disgusting! Honestly, they are in sixth grade! How can I get them all to just shut up?!

The answer to your problem would probably confront him about it if that dosen't work try to ask him to leave it a lone if confronting him helps you could ask him about whyy he is doing it it might really mean that he likes you because that is how the guys treat me at my school and when I asked him why he treated me like it he said that it was because he liked me
-hope it helped

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so i don't know why but i've all of a sudden broke out really badly in random places on my chin, cheeks, and forehead. i really don't know why because i use a clearasil pad when i wake up, clean and clear cream cleanser and aveeno non-comodogenic moisturizer in the afternoon, and a clearasil pad and invisible acne treatment stuff before i go to bed. but it still gets worse. what's the deal? HELP!!!

P.S. pro-active is NOT an option for me so don't suggest it.

I think maybe you should try switching your acne cream because I had the same problem but now I go to a personal one on one facial person maybe you should try that.

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