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popularityy
okay
so i think im pretty popular
alll my friends are popular , our whole group is and stuff.
but like, it doesnt seem like i have that many goooooddd friends and then just friends i know a little bit are just like temperaroy and we dont hangout unless like we are at a party or sitting next to eachother..
how can i like make more GOOOD friends?
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I think if they are to embaressed to be seen with you or are mean they aren't your friends you should see if there is even someone who isn't very popular would treat you doffrently and don't worry hoe your friends will react thats the right thing to do
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talk to new people. talk to people about your interests and see if they have the same interests. it may seem weird or scary to go outside your group of popular people to talk to new people but i bet the other people in your group will think it's cool that you're brave enough to do your own thing and talk to whoever you want.
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You might have some already in your group, so it's always worth taking a look around. You may find that some of your friends want good friends as well!
...But then maybe you don't really want to be great friends with them. It's important to remember that sometimes you don't realise how great your friends are until something bad happens.
However, if you feel that your current friends wouldn't necessarily help you out, you should start making new friends - but not necessarily ditching your current ones. Join new clubs and meet different people, and you'll soon find you have a wide range of friends who could develop into great friends! :)
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leave your group. See i didn't have many "very good friends" and then is tarted hanging out with the other people i talk to during school and now theres no drama no anything. i mean..populars cool and all but wouldn't you rather have good friends that you can still hang out and call when you 50? hope i helped you hun.
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Its good to have a ot of friends but its also god to have a a few really good friends just take the time to get to know the peole you think you could be better friends with and im sure youll sonn have a circle of friends whos you really know. But its not a good thin to just have like 2 really good friends try to have people around you who dont know everything about you but wh you can have a laugh with
good luck
kim
xxx
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Hard as it may be to believe, being "popular" and having lots of "popular" friends isn't what it's all about. I mean, it's great to have lots of school friends that you have brief encounters with. The best way to get good friends--lasting ones, is to find someone you can connect/bond with. Find similar interests. Try joinging a club at school or a team. Sit with someone new at lunch. Ask questions. Put yourself out there. You really have nothing to lose. And most importantly, to keep and have good friends, be a good friend yourself. Listen, learn, support, and mostly have fun. :)
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