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Sometimes it can be embarassing to ask for advice from a teacher, parent, friend or neighbour, but you still need advice. Whilst I can't promise to solve all your problems, I will always try to answer questions to the best of my ability.So...got problems?
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Ok so for my religion project i have to come up with a metaphor for faith, and then give 4 ways that faith and my other thing have in common. My metaphor is Faith to a Sports Fan. So far i only have 3 things that they hav in common: 1. Reassuring 2. Forgiving 3. Supporting. I can't think of a fourth one so any suggestions??
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Hey, I'll get right to it..
Im 16 years old, have had plenty of admirers, but I'm kind of picky. I've only had 2 kissed my whole life. Which Im kind of proud of, yet kind of dissapointed. Why? Because I'm a romkantic, I wanted to spend the rest of my life with my first kiss, be together forever, only have one loe of my life.. you know? BUT ínstead my first kiss ended up being with a random guy at a party.
yeahh, and then i repeated the mstak with my second kiss.. i waste dit on a guy who liked me, but i didnt really like him. So here comes the choice.. I could live a typical teenage life from now on, start dating..and so on, or I could wait - be really critical, really picky.. and make sure my next kisss will be with someone I can picture sepnding the rest of my life with, so then my third kiss will be the guy i spend my life with. But that means turning down a lot of guy in the future, and what if i end up wasting it anyway, i think that's who i wanna be with..but then it goes wrong. In that case Ive wasted my third kiss AND turned down a buunch of hott, great guys for NOTHING.
So what would you do? Save this kiss even though it miht end up being pointless?
Or just start dating, having fun, having alot of romantic memories, live a typical teenage life.. and then see what happends?
what do you think?
thank youu :)
A kiss is just a kiss (to quote that Casablanca song). The fact is, there is no fairytale relationship where your first kiss is perfect and you spend the rest of your life with them. Sometimes the relationships that you step into just by chance end up being amazing, and the ones that you had built up into a fantasy are just a dissapointment.
So, I guess my advice is not to suddenly get desperate or anything, still have a bit of pickyness so that you don't end up with a creep, but take a chance with guys, whilst you're still a teenager and can get away with it, otherwise you'll just regret the years that you spent worrying about getting all the things so perfect that you can't enjoy it.
So go get smooching!
There's this kid in my school. He's like a best friend to me. But he told me he likes me. I don't want us not to be friends anymore. But I don't like him like that. He's like a brother to me. But I don't want to tell him that I don't like him. I don't want to break his heart. What should I do? Please help!
Even though it seems like a terrible thing to do, you're going to have to make it clear to him that you don't return the feeling, otherwise you'll just be stringing him along. Obviously he'll be upset, but he'll thank you for it in the long run, and you'll know that it's the right thing to do.
However, just because you have to tell him this, it doesn't mean that you have to break his heart. Tell him how much he means to you as a friend, and he may even find that he's confused feelings of friendship with love. He may need time to recover, but promise to be there for him and show him how you prefer to be friends with him.
It'll be tough at first, but the alternative is allowing him the slow and grim realisation that, actually, you're just not interested, and I'm sure you wouldn't want that!
hi im a 15 year old soph guy and i like this frosh girl in my geometry class. i met her 2 years ago and didnt see her at all last year and this year shes in my geometry class..so anyway i told her about 2 weeks ago how there was something about her that drew me too her and she told me she kind of just sees us as friends..and i said ok but i know we dont know eachother that much at all..so i saw her tonight at the football game said hey to her and she said hey whats up i answered asked her how she was and she said something to her friend and walked away. one of her best friends is a friend of mine and i asked her to talk to her for me to see why she kind of just walked away so my question is should i talk to her as well or wait and she what she tells my friend? thanks in advance
Wow - this is a bit tricky. It's definitely worth waiting to see what she tells your friend, because there are two very different possibilities here:
1) She's shy, and doesn't know if you meant what you said before.
2) She really does just see you as a friend, but now that you've said something she's scared of giving you the wrong idea, so she may be avoiding you.
I guess you'll soon know from what she tells your friend, but be aware that she may well guess why your friend is asking!
Good luck, and I hope that however this turns out, your friendship with this girl stays intact.
okay
so i think im pretty popular
alll my friends are popular , our whole group is and stuff.
but like, it doesnt seem like i have that many goooooddd friends and then just friends i know a little bit are just like temperaroy and we dont hangout unless like we are at a party or sitting next to eachother..
how can i like make more GOOOD friends?
You might have some already in your group, so it's always worth taking a look around. You may find that some of your friends want good friends as well!
...But then maybe you don't really want to be great friends with them. It's important to remember that sometimes you don't realise how great your friends are until something bad happens.
However, if you feel that your current friends wouldn't necessarily help you out, you should start making new friends - but not necessarily ditching your current ones. Join new clubs and meet different people, and you'll soon find you have a wide range of friends who could develop into great friends! :)
any tips? im trying to cure myself from depression and be HAPPY. I'm trying to be positive and make the best of life. But it's sooo hard when things keep going wrong. It get harder and harder with every breath. so help me.
what can i do to keep my hopes up? what can i remind myself of to not lose faith? i need hapiness so badly. i dont wanna cry myself to sleep anymore. help anyone??
Something that always works for me is to make a list of things that make me happy, and things that I would like to do.
Simple things like baking a cake and going to the zoo are always surprisingly high up for me.
Spend time with friends who make you laugh, and try to avoid negative thoughts. This will help you to remember that you didn't always feel like this, and that happiness can be very easy to achieve once you remember how.
Finally, try telling a friend or parent about the things that are worrying you. Just talking about them with someone else can lift the load, and you may find yourself approaching the subject from a completely different angle in future.
Good luck :)