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third time's a charm; waste my third kiss?
Hey, I'll get right to it..
Im 16 years old, have had plenty of admirers, but I'm kind of picky. I've only had 2 kissed my whole life. Which Im kind of proud of, yet kind of dissapointed. Why? Because I'm a romkantic, I wanted to spend the rest of my life with my first kiss, be together forever, only have one loe of my life.. you know? BUT ínstead my first kiss ended up being with a random guy at a party.
yeahh, and then i repeated the mstak with my second kiss.. i waste dit on a guy who liked me, but i didnt really like him. So here comes the choice.. I could live a typical teenage life from now on, start dating..and so on, or I could wait - be really critical, really picky.. and make sure my next kisss will be with someone I can picture sepnding the rest of my life with, so then my third kiss will be the guy i spend my life with. But that means turning down a lot of guy in the future, and what if i end up wasting it anyway, i think that's who i wanna be with..but then it goes wrong. In that case Ive wasted my third kiss AND turned down a buunch of hott, great guys for NOTHING.
So what would you do? Save this kiss even though it miht end up being pointless?
Or just start dating, having fun, having alot of romantic memories, live a typical teenage life.. and then see what happends?
what do you think?
thank youu :)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
A kiss is just a kiss (to quote that Casablanca song). The fact is, there is no fairytale relationship where your first kiss is perfect and you spend the rest of your life with them. Sometimes the relationships that you step into just by chance end up being amazing, and the ones that you had built up into a fantasy are just a dissapointment.
So, I guess my advice is not to suddenly get desperate or anything, still have a bit of pickyness so that you don't end up with a creep, but take a chance with guys, whilst you're still a teenager and can get away with it, otherwise you'll just regret the years that you spent worrying about getting all the things so perfect that you can't enjoy it.
So go get smooching!
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personally, i would just start dating and having fun. you don't want the whole dating/kissing process to be stressful on you to turn down a bunch of guys just for a romantic story to tell. for me, i didn't get my first kiss till last july *i just turned 17*. and it was with my best guy friend of 4 years that i had a crush on the whole time but then i moved far away. so it's a good story for me to tell, but i got all hung up on him when i left and i didn't want to be with anybody else. but then someone else came into my life, and now i have a wonderful bf and i couldn't ask for anything more. if i had kept the same mindset of *no i want spend the rest of my life with my first kiss*, then i would be missing out on something wonderful that i have right here in front of me. in the end, it will obviously be up to you what you want to happen. hope i helped =)
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