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Hi. I'm Sarah. I've had my heart broken, and to be honest, I've just come out of a really rough patch, but now I'm back on my feet and giving advise again. Fantastic no? I'm not judgemental, I don't stereotype people and I'm completely honest. Still not good enough for him though...
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my boyfriend is coming home in the beginning of november, hes in california and im in texas (hes 18 and im 16) weve been dating for 3 months and we started dating before he moved back to california (its a really long complicated story) anyways, i really want to do something special while hes home, i know were going to spend alot of time together the 2 weeks he's in town but i dont want it to just be like watching movies and stuff like that. i want to do something thats memorable. we're both virgins so everything of a sexual nature is definately excluded, i mean something thats totally creative and especially sweet. i also dont have much money i can spend because im going on 2 trips this year and im saving up for them. any ideas? i can use all the advice i can get! thankyou so much!
Ok while he's home you should just try to do something everyday, like a picnic one day, go for a long walk or bikeride the next day, just go window shopping with him and go for a coffee, as long as you dont just sit around then it will be totally special and memorable. Go to the movies or something, I'm sure he wont mind paying for one night out. Hope it goes well x
ok there is this guy and he likes me and i have know him since kindergarden and he ask me out and there is a word going wround at my school saying taht he has herbies nad usually when a "rumor" goes around like that it us true because it is not common ok?
and then there is another guy and we all think that he likes me too and i dont know for sure though.
but the only thing is that he is my ex best friend and if i go out with him then it will set a image that i am trying to getback at my ex and i dont want that and it wouldnt be true!!!!
so watch should i do!!
i like both these guys!
please help!!!!!
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You cant turn down a guy just because he has herpie, if he does, it's not as if you'll catch it just by talking to him. Anyways, get to know both of them and just choose by whichever one makes you happiest.
Don't judge on anything other than personality because at the end of the day, you've got to hang around with them, and its best to hang around with somene you can talk to and have things in common with.
Also is the second guy your ex best friend or ex boyfriend? you can totally date an ex best friend, no one will care! goodluck x
does anyone know any tips or home remeies to cure acne. i have it on my forehead and in a few areas on my face. i have tried everything to get it to go away but it wont. i have tried clearisil,clearisil ultra, clearisil gel, clearisil 3 step thing, acne free(same as proactiv but cheaper and bigger bottle),equate acne pads,stridex acne pads,aspirin with lemon juice,asprin and lime juice, rubbing alcohol, washing my face more often, not touching my face and a combination of each. please help!!!
Eating really healthily helps, you should drink 2L of water everyday. Sometimes it just wont go away though so invest in a really good concealer. Also the way you do your hair could help hide it a bit, like if you have a fringe.
Moisturising after using facial cleansing helps because if stops your face producing extra oil (everytime you use these products it dries out your face, so more oil is produced and the acne gets worse)
On the worst spots use an antiseptic like TCP,
hope this helps x
i was just wondering...
this might be awkward, but do guys prefer a girl with a shaved pussy or unshaved pussy
thanks
Every guys different, you need to ask them. Keep it trimmed and tidy and you cant go wrong. xx
I had unprotected sex on friday night and got my period on saturday. Is there still a chance I may be pregnant?
You still might be pregnant, so I'd get a pregnany test to be sure, you still have time for the morning after pill too just for an extra precaution. xx
i'm an 18 year old girl who started to party with a guy from work,brad, a couple of months ago. brad's best mate is jack. jack has a girlfriend, sarah, but every time i see him he trys to have sex with me. each time i tell no becoz he has a gf. everyone knows he doesn't care about her, hes only going out wit her coz she handles his money, and shes going out with him coz he shouts her everything. he keeps telling me he really wants me and now even brad is telling me to have sex wit him. the only thing that is bothering me is the fact i really want to, but will i be a bad person if i do?? what should i do??
dont have sex with him. If he leaves his girlfriend its fine, but you've got to remember if he treats her badly, he'll probably do the same to you.
im in 8th grade, and please dont tell me that it is too young to be having sex--I KNOW!! i am a christian, and it's just that i live in a really small town, and so everybody just seems to know when you've lost your virginity, and i dont know, its just that there is quite a bit of pressure put on having sex. but my question is, is that ive heard that you have a less chance of getting pregnant while on your period. i would just die if i decided to have sex and ended up getting pregnant!! but the problem is, is that i dont know if guys will have sex if a girl is on her period. is that gross to them??
just use a condom.
ok i just turned 13 a week ago and i'm in 7th grade, and i havn't had a boyfriend yet...i'm pretty sure its because... i'm ugly, i mean i wear glasses i'm 5'0 or 5'1 and i'm fat... (135) waht do i do?? i cant talk to a friend or cousin or aunt, and my mom passed away. so i live with my dad. what should i do?? please please please help me. o and if u say maybe to change my hairstyle, tell me a site or link please p.s. i have brown hair and the length is the middle of my arm befor my elbow.
Having a boyfriend isn't everything! If you really think your fat look up your local nutritionist and ask about a healthy eating plan. ALso try to walk more and cut out fattening foods such as chips, burgers etc. If you think your ugly experiment with make-up, even a small amount of foundation can make you look 1000 times better. If you don't want glasses, get contact lenses, or get a new pair. And as for your hair, ask your hairdresser, they'll know as cutting hair is what they've been trained to do, they'll know far more about it than I can tell you. But seriously, dont get too hung up about looks, you probably look fine. xx
I'm 14/f and I'm a freshman at my high school. The problem is one of my "friends" let's call her Tina. Well, I've known her since the beginning of 8th grade and we were cool back then. I didn't reall know her but I thought she was nice and funny. But as our friendship progress that changed. She was so clingy saying I love you, You're my bestest friend for life! We have to be best friends FOREVER! And she was so freakishly self centered that it wasn't even funny. She cares about NO ONE but herself. If she did something wrong, she would blame someone else or make everyone feel guilty that they HAD to forgive her or THEY became the bad person. She is a scene and a emo poser as well as a druggie and a cutter. She think her life is so bad when it isn't. She's the only child so she gets whatever she wants, gets to do whatever she wants and everything with: whatever she wants in it. She "cuts" which are like paper cuts and no more and less sometimes. She would go around in gym screaming should I cut or not?! I'm like TINA SHUT UP! And she thinks shes a durggie because she's done drug ONCE. And it wasn't een serious and she ahted the feeling and vowed to never do it again. Keep that in mind for the next statement I will make: Whenever she doesn't get what she wants, she would go into another place and pretend to cut and my friends will go chasing after her to make her feel better while I'm left alone--and I won't go to comfort her anymore because I'm SICK of it. I mean I don't mind if she does it once in a while but everytime my friends and she and I meet, it's always the same. She needs ALL the attention and frankly, I'm tired of it and it's annoying. She would always hug me, claim me as her PROPERTY, she won't let me sit with anyone but her at lunch...the only way I can sit with my other friends is if I somehow get free from her gripping my shirt in the middle of the cafeteria, she hugs me, she acts like a BABY. And with what I said above know this: she has SERIOUS hygene problems. She never brushes her teeth. She takes a shower once a week. Deoderant is her shower. She changes her clothes..eh maybe 2-3 days..I mean it's disgustiong and her hugging me in public, rolling in my bed, holding my hand. UHG. Now that is not the only reason adnI know that what I just say is shallow but come on! I can't deal with this. I want to just break off the friendship with her. I'm sick of it. But if I do, my friends WILL turn against me, the class we are in together will be chaotic, and etc etc. And another thing, she just got back srugery and that would make me look REALLY bad if I break of the friendship with her now. WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH THIS TINA!!!
You need to talk to her, if she has a hygene problem, tell her, she might not realise, it's best you tell her than she finds out from people talking about her. The calling herself a druggie, well maybe she feels as if she needs to exaggerate her life to make people like her? To be honest it sounds like all she wants is attention, and you need to tell her that she is not going the right way about it. Try to do it tactfully, otherwise people may feel like you're the bad person. Good luck. xx
HI people I'm 17. Sorry to ask something stupid like this. But I wanted to know a couple of things before i go out and get a belly ring. One, would it look ok or good on someone that's not overweight, but not a stick either. Two, does it hurt ? I mean I have a tattoo, but I’m not sure what a belly piercing feels like. Three, what are the goods, and bad’s of belly rings. If any of you can help me out with this it will mean a lot. Thanks and hope you all have a nice day.
A belly ring looks good on anyone, unless theyre really fat. They can be difficult to heal, but if they're looked after properly they're fine, certain types of jewellery fall out. But they look good at the end of it. It's not really pain, more of a burning sensation, but its really quick. Just make sure you get a professional to do it who has experience, if it is put in the wrong place it can reject which can be very painful. Hope it goes well. xx
im a 14 year male and i just quit smoking after about 2 years of heavy smoking and i was wondering how long it will take for my lungs to start to get back to normal when im running and stuff
I'm pretty sure its around 7 years before the tar from your lungs is cleared... well done for quitting! xx
i want to get my belly button peirced
and im 13
and my mom said i can
but im afraid it will hurt
like really badly
and im getting it with the needle cause you can get aids and all that stuff from the guns
so does anyone have it!?
and does it hurt!!!?
It doesn't hurt, stay calm! The only thing you should worry about is keeping it clean afterwards. Rejection or infection is far more painful so clean it with either salt water or ask whoever does the peircing for advise. Its worth it in the end!
I was wondering if it was true that after spem come in contact with air do they really die? If a guy ejaculates and then wipes off completely and then has intercourse unprotected is there a chance that pregnancy can occur even though air has touched the sperm?
Air doesn't kill sperm. Research has shown that some sperm can even last a few days. The fact is, unprotected sex means there is a chance of pregnancy, regardless of wether its the first time, 3rd time, or the sperm has touched air.
This isn't exactly a "help me" kind of question, but, it is a valed question. I was just wondering, if anyone decides to answer me..."What is happening here?" I have been going through the questions and I am lucky if I see every 4th question have one answer! It used to be every question had at least 5 or 6 answers. Anything happening I should know about? Isn't anyone here anymore? Well, thank you for those of you who do answer.
well i just joined, so it cant be dying with such a fantastic new person :) xx
ok well , if you guys are down with "labels" , you can deff say im hardcore emo . so as you can imagine , i like lots of eyeliner . see , my mom wont let me wear makeup to school and im in the 7th grade . its so gay . she doesnt understand that the way i dress and do makeup and do my hair is how i express myself through ways other then talking . any ideas in what i can do to either talk her into it , or different styles that arent too much OR SOMETHING ! thanks in advanced . hanna
Talk to your mum about it. If she still says no, wear less eyeliner than you would, and each day wear a little more, that way she should just get used to it, I dont see why she doesnt like it... its your life right? hope it works out. xx
Okay Thrusday I told Eric I liked him.But there was so much more.
On like Monday, Tuesday,and Wensday my bestest friend Emily kept telling me to tell him to not be afraid all this and that..so thurday on the bus we were all alone in the back of the bus talk and i asked him if you promissed a friend something would you breck it and he said no.So about 5 minetes later i told him,
"Well i like you and thats what i promissed Emily i would tell you and like uh thats why i asked you if you would breck a promiss cause i knew if i told you id make a complete fool of myself and Emily told me to wait till i was about to get off but i guess i planned it wrong.."
And he said what...so i repeated myself and he said okay...
not the best thing to say right..but as i was gtting off the bus i feel and smacked my head against the seat he was sitting at cause i fell i tripped and fell and smack!!he just looked at me sadly thats it....and i stayed home friday(today from school)and on the bus to go home he asked emily if she knew where i was and she said i think she stayed home to today and got of the bus....and im not pretty im not calling myself ugly but im not the type of girl who'd be like oh i love you and just make out with the guy.so i know i made a complete fool but i dont know if he said something to anyone about it but he cared about me cause he asked well i think...
do you think he liks me?please explain im worried my friendship with eric is ruined and he hates me
ps and morgan my friend asked him if he even listened to me and he said no so
Well if he didn't even listen to you i doubt he has much interest in you, but I doubt thats what you want to hear. You need to ask him for yourself or you'll never really know what he thinks. xx
Over the summer my parents found out I was drinking (early July) and instead of not being able to go out, they banned me from seeing any of my friends that were involved/they didn't trust. I was only aloud to see my best friend (who was at camp at the time) boyfriend and some mutual friends. They lighted up and I was allowed to see them at the end of July. I went on vacation with my friend in late August and during that time they went through my friend's xanga's and found out a lot of stuff. I haven't seen any of them since then. They were my closest friends and it hurt so bad when I was permanently banned form seeing them. Now all I do is come home and get into fights with my parents and end up crying and falling asleep in the mid afternoon. I'm stuck hanging out with the same people all weekend & I'm going insane. They won't even let me go certain places because of past experiences and I have absolutely nowhere to go and no one who I actually like to hangout with. To make matters worse my boyfriend is going down the shore with one of my friends this weekend so I won't be seeing him. Everything's just pissing me off and nothing is looking good anymore. I'm going insane inside and just don't know what to do anymore. Going to school is the only thing making my happy anymore because at least I seem them in the hallways. I just can't believe I had all my friends ripped away from me and they (my parents) don't realize how hard its hurting me. I don't want my highschool years to be this way ):
You need to speak to them. I know that probably doesn't help, but banning you from seeing your friends is not the answer, if you explain how sorry you are it might help, but you just need to let them know how much you miss your friends. Either that or sneak out and see them... but I don't advise you do that... I hope it all works out. xx
I'm a guy and i'm seventeen years old. For some reason my voide isnt as deep as other guys i no. It's really embarassing sometimes and i dont know what to do. People sometimes think I'm gay...even though I'm not, because of my weird sounding voice...What should I do???
Your voice is not your whole personality! If you want a girls opinion I dont care if a guy has a deep voice or not. It doesn't make you abnormal, everyones voice is different. If people just assume your gay from your voice, theyre the ones with the problem! If you really want a deeper voice look for your local speech therapist, they might have some ideas, but I'd say just try to ignore it. Anyone that cares what your voice sounds like isn't worth talking to anyway. xx
well my wisdom teeth are coming out this friday and im soo scared...im only 14 years old....is there anything i should be prepared for? any food advice?? thanks.
I've had 5 teeth pulled out in my life. They weren't that bad. Dont eat just after because most of your face will be numb and you will bite your cheek alot. Stick to soft food like soup for a few days afterwards and most importantly dont worry!
It's over before you know it and the worst thing you can do is worry. They pretty much numb your whole face too so it doesn't hurt one bit.
hope i helped. xx
16/f
I like to wear skinny jeans. I LOVE them. The way I dress is labeled "scene/punk"...whatever.
My friends (3 of them) want to start wearing skinny jeans because they say I look good in them so they want to try them. I'm a size 5.
First of all..what are y'alls views on skinny jeans? (out of curiousity)
Do y'all think girls who are sizes 5,9, and 11 would look good in skinny jeans?
Oh and...I don't want them to look EXACTLY like me so what other shoes, besides converse or flats, would look good with skinny jeans?
I love skinny jeans, I think they look really good on anyone as long as you have the confidence to pull it off. I usually mix skinny jeans with longer tops and either huge heels or flats, but usually with animal print or bright colours. If you've got big hips experiment with wider belts and where you wear them, they can take pounds off, and bright colours draw the eye away too. Skinny jeans can look fabulous on anyone. xx