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i want him but he has a gf
i'm an 18 year old girl who started to party with a guy from work,brad, a couple of months ago. brad's best mate is jack. jack has a girlfriend, sarah, but every time i see him he trys to have sex with me. each time i tell no becoz he has a gf. everyone knows he doesn't care about her, hes only going out wit her coz she handles his money, and shes going out with him coz he shouts her everything. he keeps telling me he really wants me and now even brad is telling me to have sex wit him. the only thing that is bothering me is the fact i really want to, but will i be a bad person if i do?? what should i do??
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if you don't wanna have sex with him then don't...maybe all he wants is your body not your love??...
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eh, i'd say wait till they broke up. tell him that if he really wants to do stuff with you, he should wait till he's not committed to another person.
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No. Please don't have sex with Jack. From what I know, he really wants you...for sex. I don't think I'd wanna do it with a jerk; a guy who treats his gf like trash, even if it's just for a fling.
Do you know if Sarah really likes Jack? How would she take it if she knew that he did it with another girl?
I don't know your character and I'm not sure if you are open to the idea of having sex without expecting the guy to commit himself into a relationship. But what I honestly feel, is that with sex comes along some form of attachment afterwards.
Jack could've told Brad to persuade you to do it. You'll never know and you don't know. Don't hang around with guys like that.
Think of the consequences first. Its ultimately up to you to decide for yourself.
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dont have sex with him. If he leaves his girlfriend its fine, but you've got to remember if he treats her badly, he'll probably do the same to you.
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I think I would find someone new to party with.
Jack isn't going to be leaving his girlfriend. He doesn't care enough about you (and probably others)
enough to do that. He just wants sex and will say anything to get it. His friend Brad isn't much better encouraging you. Makes you wonder what they are up to. Run the other way as fast as you can. :)
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