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This guy wont leave me alone!!
there is this guy at my school.i went out with him last year and now he wont leave me alone!! he asked me out already asked me out this year but i dont like him!
How can i tell him to leave me alone politly?
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You should try to tell him that there is no felling you have towrd him but you would like to be friends hope it help
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Just say that you just want to stay friends, or that you don't want a relationship with him. Just be somwhat nice about it
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At the point he asked you out again, what did you tell him? If you were truthful about not wanting to date him, it should already be clear. If you gave him a wishy washy excuse, of course he still thinks he has a chance. Tell him that you don't want to date him. That is clear and he will not bug you again.
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Oh gawd, I can totally relate to this. My suggestion is to politely tell him, 'I really want us to be friends but I don't think it would work as anything more. See you around!' and then give a big smile. I know that sounds a little harsh but it will work trust me. Don't try and be like 'I Know who likes you!' and tell him another girl to go stalk because then that girl might HATE you for putting that burden on her and you definately know how that feels. Just be straight up and honest in a nice, and polite way.
Hope this helps;; xx
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Just tell him that you can't talk at the moment, or you're really busy with something if you just want to avoid him for awhile. And whenever he comes up to talk, say you can't, maybe later, sorry and walk away. And sooner over time, hopefully he'll realize you're not always available to talk and will back off a little.
Or you can do that be honest thing too, haha. Just let him know that you're not liking him like that, and you really would like to be friends with him, but he can't always be crowding around in your space. You're not saying he's annoying or anything, but you don't always want to talk to people and be around them." And just let him know what you're feeling and thinking, and hopefully he'll understand.
I hope I helped.
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Alright, so you want polite? Most people would just shout in their faces and say "can you leave me alone! I dont like you!" BUT that's not they way you should do it. DONT shout in his face. It's important to use a calm voice. DONT tell him that you dont like him. When he comes up to you, just smile and say "((his name)), I really think you're a great guy, but I've moved on with my life and so many changes have happend over last year that I think you should find another person. Now, I'm not saying lets stop being friends... I'm just saying I'm not that interested in you anymore. Sorry." after that DONT smile, he'll think you're joking or you're really mean that way. Look around and act sad, he'll get the picture that you really mean it and that you are really sorry.
Another way that I learned from my friend is hook him up with another girl! ;)
Say "I know somebody who likes you!!" and then tell him somebody and just try to get him away from you, and lure him to another girl.
I hope I helped!
-volleyball2150
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