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pregnancy


Question Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 12:05 am

Okay
I dont think im pregnant,but im paranoid about it.
I had sex with a condom but then got close to doing it again without a condom , but we only did it for like 3 seconds and then I said stop because i was scared.
My boobs have been hurting lately and I had a stomach ache but I didnt throw up.
He tells me he thinks im fine and i hope hes right.

What should I do??


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brylove answered Saturday October 7 2006, 8:56 pm:
I think that the best way to deal with this would be to maybe even tell your mom about this because if you don't there would be that whole problem if you are pregnet this could really a thing that you should tell your mom, friend, school cousler, doctor, even if you have to go this low tell a teacher, brother, DAD, don't worry they can't get mad if you are it was a mistake you will never make again wait and see if you are late by three days with you period but do not let your boyfriend tell his buddies even talkig to your boyfriends mom would be ok!
-hope it helps
-brylover

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sizzlinmandolin answered Sunday October 1 2006, 2:17 pm:
You were close to having sex? No, you did have sex. Whether his penis was in your vagina for 3 seconds or 3 hours, it's sex. It's very good that you stopped him after such a short time though. Way to go on your part, setting aside the inital mistake of allowing it at all. That said, I doubt that you are pregnant. It's a scary thing when stuff like this happens, so keep this in mind the next time you are about to have unprotected sex. Sex has huge emotional, physical, and life-changing consequences.

A day after pill would be a good idea. Even though the chances of you being pregnant are low, it would put your mind at ease to take one. It's possible to miss your period just from being stressed. You don't want that to happen because then you'd have to get a pregnancy test to make sure you weren't pregnant.

Make sure your boyfriend is aware of all the risks. I can't believe that he would do that to you. Sit him down and tell him that unprotected sex, no matter for how long, is completely unacceptable. Good luck. :)

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saabio answered Saturday September 30 2006, 7:51 pm:
actaully... you CAN get pregnant from 3 seconds. We learned that in Healthclass. As long as the Penis was in there, he coulda gotten u pregnant. I know this news will make you uneasy but it's true.
I honestly doubt ur pregnant but still, take a test and stay away from sex for a while if you dont want to be un easy. OR GO ON THE PILL

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xgirlygurl answered Saturday September 30 2006, 1:22 pm:
You could still be pregnant it doesnt take much
even if youre nearly certain youre not you should make sure because if you leave it and you actually are theres nothing you can do about it then.
GirlyGurl n Shandi
xxx <33

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xostarbrightbaby answered Saturday September 30 2006, 9:58 am:
Since it was only 3 seconds you can`t get pregnant, thinking about it will make you scared and make you think and feel you are. Just relax and wait. If you feel still feel worried take a pregnancy test or wait till you get your period. Hope this helps. &hearts;

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PRPrincess14 answered Saturday September 30 2006, 9:06 am:
Well.....dont worry its just probably your perid is coming its normal so dont worry about it im glad that you protected yourself...thats a really smart choice....but no nothing is wrong with you!!!!!!!

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DancinCutie08 answered Saturday September 30 2006, 9:05 am:
chances are you are getting sick because you are soo paranoid. I would just relax and take a pregnancy test to put your fears to rest

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rache answered Saturday September 30 2006, 7:13 am:
well i get that sometmes and everytime i get parrnoid. and everytime i do a test to make me chill and everytime it is negaitve. try not to worri

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helperkid answered Saturday September 30 2006, 6:20 am:
i dont think your pregnant, maybe you are starting to get a little bit of a bug. 3 seconds wouldnt make u pregnant.

Hope That Helped!
Ashley

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Chika answered Saturday September 30 2006, 1:13 am:
if this was less than 24 hours ago get morning after pills asap

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amygwendoline answered Saturday September 30 2006, 12:17 am:
Don't be scared. [:
Seriously, I had a big time pregnancy scare, pretty same situation. You can scare yourself completely shitless, and you get so paranoid about it, things happen like your boobs hurting or your stomach aching. It doesn't necessarily mean you're pregnant. I mean, I'm not saying you're not. But it is a possibility. Just wait until your period comes, and see what happens. <3

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HoNeStMiStAkE16 answered Saturday September 30 2006, 12:17 am:
I'm pretty sure your fine but if your that nervous go to a department store or borrow a preg. test and get checked..or go to the doctor. but im sure your fine. hope i helped hun!

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