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im cheating on my boyfriend what should i do?


Question Posted Monday October 9 2006, 4:56 pm


Good afternoon,
Okay..in the begining it was all about him what he wanted too do what he wanted he cheated on me a coupple of times with various girls one being a stripper...ah mean after a year i turned too the only other person i cud trust my ex ..and then well we kissed and thats all and my boyfriend found out...oo well and well too realease his anger he choked me off in town ..ah mean it was a bit embarssing at the time and i forgave him ..but then as time passed he began too tell me more hurtfull things when he got mad and so i turned too another friend but this time the realtionship was different we werent intimate but if i alloweed it it would goo there
bascially my bf doesnt trust me for varyin reasons some i may have given himm,, he says i lie to my parents but the only reaason i lie to them is beacause that the only way i go and lime with him ..soo now i rly dont kno what too doo need ur advice!!!shud i move on and forget abouthim and what should i do about the other guy.. lost in love

CaribbeanQueen
Age:20
Female
St.Vincent and the Grenadines


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Yes answered Wednesday October 11 2006, 8:35 pm:
I read the subject, and I already have an answer.


Stop cheating.

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Monday October 9 2006, 11:16 pm:
your boyfruiend seems very agressive and hurtful. you should never go otu with aguy that treats you like shit. thta is like the worest thing you can do. think about which guys treats yopu better. which guy you wnat to be with more then make your decision. i cant make it for you but i can tell you from what it sound like, you friend sounds like a better person then your boyfriend. i hope this helps.
♥ STeph

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MelLeDisko answered Monday October 9 2006, 9:23 pm:
I would totally forget about your boyfriend! He sounds like a major jerk and doesn't treat you right, and doesn't sound like a good boyfriend at all, and I'd get out of it now. And if you're cheating on him anyways, that shows the relationship isn't doing on good, and you'd rather be with other people anyways. And why would YOU want to be with a guy thats cheated on you anyways? Him not trusting YOU? Please, you're the one who can't trust HIM. If he really loved you, he wouldn't have cheated on you, so why be in a relationship with someone who doesn't have mutual feelings or isn't a good boyfriend?

As for this guy, why not give it a shot? He could be a great boyfriend, you never know. I'm sure any guy sounds better than your current boyfriend.

I hope I helped.

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karenR answered Monday October 9 2006, 8:43 pm:
No matter what reason he doesn't trust you, its no excuse to be abusive. He doesn't have to hit to be abusive, sometimes words are just as bad.

I have to advise you to move on. If there is no trust the relationship is dead in the water. As for the other guy, if you like him, go out with him.
Stop dating your boyfriend and you're free as a bird. Date anyone you want! :)

Good luck.

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