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Im a nice but blunt person so you can expect me to treat you as a friend but give it to you how it is. I know something about everything but Im smart enough to know that I dont know everything. I joined this site to help others since Ive always been good at giving advice and helping others.
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Hello, I have a wedding to attend to this weekend and have picked out a potential outfit. I scoured the mall looking for dresses and haven't found one to fit my tastes as I'm rather picky when it comes to dresses. Instead, I have decided to choose an outfit that looks business casual...a pair of nice dress pants, a satin camisole, a black short sleeved (very chic) work jacket, and black stilletto heels. In your opinion, do you think that this outfit would be appropriate for a wedding? I'm not exactly sure especially since weddings usually mean dresses or pantsuits for the older ladies, but since it's in the fall, I think it might be appropriate. Thanks for the help! (link)
YES it is appropriate for the wedding. Weddings dont necessarily mean every female must wear a dress. What you picked out to wear is very nice and in my mind very cute :)


I have just recently had feelings for my guy friend who I've known for quite awhile now. Even when I was with my boyfriend my mind tended to think about him instead. My dilemma is to reveal my feelings to him or not. Typically, the answer seems so obvious, but there are a few circumstances. You see, my guy friend, he does not have the personality I look for in a guy. Granted he is funny and great, and I'm not picky when it comes to guys I date, but he isn't the committed type nor is he dating material...and right now I'm looking for a long-term relationship, while he is not. I guess you could call this a crush, but do I reveal my feelings and risk awkwardness in our frienship? Or do I keep the feelings to myself since I'm not interested in dating him? (link)
I think its best if you let him know how you feel. Our feelings werent made to be kept bottled up. You'll feel better once you tell him. Im not sure how it will affect youre friendship with him because I dont know how he would react. But if you let him know that you arent interested in dating him, who knows maybe he likes you and he just might change for you. But if he doesnt like you, by you letting him know that you dont want to date him, it draws that line which makes you and him still on a friendship level and wont cause as much awkwardness.


Me and my friend have been friends for about 6 years now and it's always just been me and her and now for 2 years now i have been friends with another girl names sarah. My other friend doesn't like her (for no good reason at all) and gets mad when she talks to me, and says that sarah is trying to steal her best friend (me). My friend got mad when i answered my other line and talked to sarah while talking to her. So then i never put my friend on hold again. Well then when we were talking she answered her other line and hung up on me. She then told me to get over it and laughed about it and when i told her she was a hypocrite she told me i was overreacting. (link)
No youre not mean or wrong for that matter. She didnt like how you had her on hold and you stopped; you changed for her which only showed you cared. She did what she didnt like you to do so by you calling her a hypocrite is right. If anything she is mean. She is selfish and you should have a good talk to her... not only about the hypocrit thing but about how you deserve to have other friends and that you wont ever forget about her or leave her by herself for sarah. But yea.. talk to her seriously or this can be close to the end of youre friendship.


so pretty much my life wont be complete with the half thing on the left girl

http://www.anchorblue.com/store/index.php?navLevel=GIRLS

and...that store doesnt even seem to sell it! where can i find something like it.. (link)
try Dots or Raves..even Hollister might have that. A lot of stores that sell girl (junior) clothing have those types of things. Maybe you should find out what it is called exactly and then search for places around you that have it. The internet is a great source, take hold of the benefits!


i'm making a list of 365 songs for my boyfriend while he's away at his group home thing... its a thing for our one year and i've got 122 but i can't think of any more. does anyone know any more songs i could add to the list? (link)
Hmmm I think that you should google it.
(www.google.com)
I did some googling myself and got these sites:
(and I actually went to them so I knew if they would be able to help you at all) :)

http://www.soundexp.com/top20.html
http://lovelyrics.com/toptitles.php
http://www.epinions.com/content_2660606084
http://www.ez-tracks.com/best_love_songs.html
http://www.ez-tracks.com/Love.html

you can find a lot more by using search engines. I hope that helped some.


I am currently "going out" with a 6th grader and I am an 8th grader. I normally like taller guys, but hes shorter. and hes really sweet.cute. and i like him a lot. but im so self concious and i worry too much about what other people think
is it too weird?
please give me honest opinions. (link)
Girl, stop worrying about what other people say. I know its easier said than done, but trust me. If you really like him, dont let other people's thoughts contradict how you feel and what you do. And as far as you being too old for him...NO, youre not too old for him. If you are an 8th grader and he is a 6th grader then you two are not too far apart in age. But I see where youre coming from. If being with him makes you happy, then go for it.



Hey!

Like a month ago, my friend Paul told me he thought my friend Victoria was just a little hot. I said, oh, but I like him. Seriously, I love him I think. I am 13, but I do. I have had many boyfriends, but somethings special about him.

At this dance Friday, Paul was like I am going to ask Victoria to dance. Victoria is like my best friend too. I pretended I told victoria but I didnt, then I told Paul she was like "Eww."

So now apperently he really likes her. I have been preteneding to try and hook them up, just to talk to Paul. Paul and I talk on the phone, but it is always about Victoria! I get in troble in english and math, always because I am showing off for Paul.

I try and show off, like I say, "Paul you might now like Victoria, she hasnt kissed anyone." Then he said, Dont worry, she will get kissed if you get her to go out with me.


Victoria doesnt really like him. She might go out with him, because I think she knows I like him. Victoria and I are friends and all, almost best friends, but we try to be better then one another.

Im not sure what to do. Should I keep talking bad about Victoria? I rather Paul then Victoria though, because Vicotoria and I are that great of friends! (link)
NO, you shouldnt keep talking bad about Victoria. Yea, you two might be really good friends and this might not change your relationship with her, but when will this stop? It will break your friendship up sooner or later and it will be ugly. If you continue to do what youre doing, the only thing that is going to happen is he is going to give up trying to get with Victoria and youre going to try to get him to see that you like him and he isnt going to have it. In other words he is not going to want you back. You are going to be hurt and left looking stupid. So if you tell him now that you like him and stop lying on Victoria, your chance is better because he will see how nice and honest you are; rather than him catching you in your lies.

And maybe you should stop trying to show off for Paul, I know you really like him but just be yourself and trust me, if he doesnt like you for you, then he isnt worth it. Being 13 is a young age and you have a long time to find a guy to love and to love you back.




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