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Should I?
Okay, so at one point, there was this guy that I was involved with for awhile, and he blocked me on line, and when he blocked me, I made another screen name he didn't know in case he blocked the ones he did...recently I had the idea to start talking to him on that sn to like, attract him in a way, get him to want the character behind that sn, and then once I know he likes (her), I'd suggest we meet, and it would be me he meets up with.
I know it's a lot of lying (sort of), and a lot of deceit, but I almost want to do it. Like, start fresh, in a way.
What do you guys think?
Btw we're in college...^^
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He'll freak out when you two meet.
I would.
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i think that its a good idea. it will help you know if hes truthful to you or not and if he does go and meet the "other girl" than that lets you know that he goes behind your back. but is he doesnt then that lets you know hes good to you. it is bad to lie in a way like that but sometimes you gotta do waht you gotta do. btw if you decided to go along with your plan, tell me what he does im kind of curious now haha. BUT if you dont feel like it i understand
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i actually did something like this before. and of course when the guy found out he was extremely PISSED OFF, and we havent talked since. once he finds out you've been lying 24/7 he will completely lose his trust in you and will probably never speak to you again. it might seem like a clever idea, yeah i thought so too while i was making the screen name i was thinking "haha this is gunna be so great" but it turned out to be nasty. dont go on that other screen name anymore. you dont need to tell him it was you but just dont sign on that screen name and he will probably forget about it. he will most likely unblock you but if he doesnt in the near future either contact him through myspace, email, phone, or talk to him in school. if you cant contact him through any of those ways then you're out of luck! but whatever you do, don't keep on lying and stuff because trust me he'll never forgive you and things will never be the same between you and him. dont make the same mistake i did =(
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I think he will probably think you're extremely clingy and I don't think he'll just be so happy it was you behind the screenname....you're not letting him move on and talking to him under another screen name may make him upset if he finds out. I mean I know you have good intentions but how's he going to feel if you all get back together and he always remember that you're a good liar. He will probably question you about things a lot more.
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I thin you should go meet up with him.
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Ha, believe me, I had a friend do the same exact thing and it in no way worked in her favor. Not only did he feel hurt and betrayed by the fact she'd be lying to him all this time and he told her things he wouldn't tell some people and he really had feelings for her, but he wound up not talking to her anymore, and now nothing's going on. I would just IM him on that screename as yourself, talk to him about what happened and why did he block you, and then just get him to like you; by being yourself. And apologize for whatever happened, and just ask him if you two can start fresh. You shouldn't have to play some other type of character just to get a guy. If he doesn't like YOU for YOU, it's his loss.
I hope I helped.
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