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I am a freshman in highschool. my friends always come to me for advice and they said that it really workds well for them so i figured that i would try advinators out. im pretty new at advicenators but im going to give this a shot. please help and support me. thanks.

The one and only,
Brittany

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im fed up!! my best friend nicole, her other best friend is always hogging her and i never get ot hang out with her, they are either having a sleepover or wont let me talk to them. I have also known nicole for waay longer. what should i do?

talk to nicole more often and say 'hey want to stay the night with me this weekend?' then if you do spend time with her tell her how you feel. it might be hard at first but once you get it out you'll feel much better. trust me. anf if she says she cant tell her then how you feel hopefully she will understand and spend more time with you. if not then shes not a true friends anyways. ive been in that situation many of times it will get better and if it doesnt try making better friends. i really hope i helped

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There's a really really REALLY hott guy in my class...let's call him...tim. Well, Tim is a really popular guy who is really nice and well, HOT :)...basically, if you looked at him, your heart would melt...lol. And, well i'm not a popular person..It's not like i'm a total geek or anything but i'm not the most popular girl in my class...im just normal...

ANYWAY...

At my friend's halloween b-day party, my friend told him "You and Em would make a great couple...you should ask her 2 dance"...
Tim didnt ask me or anything so I thought that he didnt like me....

Since then, he's talked 2 me a little bit and I even saw him looking at me a little bit...does this mean he likes me? I doubt this but what do you think? He broke up with his girlfriend a while ago but at the party i saw them dancing together...

Should I give up now while I'm ahead? Any advice would be GREAT!!!

Thanx!!!
*~*EM (13/f)

hey EM! well im sort of in the same situation too. well try talking to him some and become friends. it will take some time but just be friends at first, see if he is friends with any of yours and try haning out with your friends and tell them to invite him if none of your frineds are buddies with him just try becoming his friend and then see if he likes you for who you are. if he doesnt like you hes not worth it. i know you hear that alot right? well its true you will move on if he doesnt feel the same way about you. but if he does like you great! good luck and i hope it works out

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Well, me and my girlfriend were fooling around and after we dry humped and i came, i fingered her. Now I don't remember if i had semen on my hand(from touching my damp shorts). She's had her period already, 2 weeks after the event, but she's been showing symptoms of "Morning sickness" at the same time. Could she be pregnant or just feeling a bit under the weather?

No she id not pregnant because she had her period afterwards. she is probably just sick. hope she gets better:]

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I am playing about 15 or more hours of soccer a week and i recently got elbowed in my arm. It hurts alot. I figured that I would just rest it and it would feel better, but the other day by friend bumped into my arm and i started hysterical crying. I dont think its supposed to hurt that bad. Does anybody know what i should do? ok, thanksss.

it could possible be broken most likely not but maybe. its probably really injured, you should go to the doctor and have it checked out.

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so my boyfriend and i had sex earlier, were both 14. but anyways, he like got off of me and it felt pretty wet down there so i felt my..yeah..and there was blood. it bled for a couple minutes and it was sorrrrt of a lot. it wasnt like dripping out or whatever, it would come out if i wiped it with the towel i had, or if i stuck my fingers in and pulled them back out. why do you think i bled? im also having cramps right now from it, but i usually always have cramps after sex.

the reason you were bleeding was because he probably popped your cherry your completely fine and sex does hurt the first time.

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well i am getting to that middle school age where everyone has a boyfriend. now im not one of tthose desperate girls who must have one, but if i were to get one how would i tell my mom?

most people are exited when they get a boyfriend, so you could start off by being really happy, exited, etc. and if you mom asks why you are so happy that should me a good time to tell her. that would be a good way to walk right into it. or you could just tell her right off the bat, so right after you get a boyfriendyou coule go up to your mom and tell her be like "Oh my gosh mom guess what!" and she should ask you what then you tell her "i got a boyfriend!" thats usually how i tell my mother because im usually exited lol. good luck

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Ok, yes, it is almost halloween and I have no ides where to get a costume or what to be. I'm a female, pls help!

theres alot of costumes out there. try something that fits you personality. i dont personally know you so i cant recoment anything good for your personality but here is a link to a website that has alot of really cool costumes.


http://www.buycostumes.com/productgridview.aspx?pCatID=ChildCostumes&cCatID=ChildTeenCostumes

i hope you get great ideas from this site, i know i did i found my costume from here:)

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13/f i have such curly, frizzy hair and i usually straighten it, but when i want to wear it curly it's annoying. my hair is fine when it's still wet, but then when it dries it poofs up. i've tried a lot of products, so you have any tips or hairstyles i can use on my hair to make it now frizzy when it's curly.

oh i know how you feel i delt with the same problem but i got my hair permantly straightend. if you have the money you can do that too but its pretty expincive. inbox me if you want to know more about that but if you cant afford it try buying defrizzers or maybe gel or mosse and scrunching your hair, that always looks cute. but i highly recomend defrizzing sprays.


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it could damage your hair but it didnt damage mine. when your roots grow in just straighten it with a flat iron and it wont like wierd. it will conrtol the frizziness your air wont be frizzy at all. (which is what I like the most) if your really thinking about getting it done then you can ask your hair styleist how much they charge for it and what they think about it. they would know more about it than i do and they can help alot more then me. good luck

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I recently made it so that i could recieve instent messages on my cell phone, is there a way to undo this??????

Thanks in advanced.

call your cell phone company and ask if they can take it off. they should be able to. it simple and no worries.

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okay i have to write a short story about a frog and i need help on some ideas about what it could be about? .....so i guess can anyone please give me some ideas for a short story about a frog? thanx

if it can be any type of story try doing a kids story. write about the frog going on an adventure and you know what kids stories are like, have a cute happy ending where the frog falls in love and they live happy ever after. if thats not an option you can give me a question on my inbox with more information about the assignment (im just assuming its an assignment for school) and i can help you out a little more. good luck on the story.

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k this is wierd
i dont use tampons and i want to ask how do you go to the bathroom when you wear tampons
do you take it out and have to put it back again

the hole that you put the tampon in is a different hole than you pee through. you can still wear a tampon while peeing. if you want to know more about it read the box that you tampons came in.

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does anyone know how to get a body like Jessica Alba? cuz shes skinny but not too skinny. like athletic. thank you!

ok one, ignore the first two answers they are just people who need to learn to answer questions for real and not act dumb. If you want a body like Jessica Albas hit the gym, eat right dont eat fat foods like junk food or fast food, and exersize daily.

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My brother and i were in a car accident recently and i was driving and totaled my brand new escalade. he told the police and our parents that he was the one driving so i wouldnt get in trouble since i only had my license for a few months and he has had his for about 6 years. i feel horrible about the whole thing tho and i cant figure out what to do. should i tell my parents the truth of just let it be?

you should tell your parents. sure you'll get in trouble but its better than goin on the rest of your life knowing that you were the one who recked the car and not your brother. you will feel a lot better about yourself if you tell them the truth than if you kept lieing. sorry about you accident by the way. are you and your brother okay?

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ok well one of my friends at school has found all these other people to hang out with and they are getting her in alot of trouble! ive tried to tell her that but she wont listen she just thinks im jealous but im really not! pleasse hellp me!
thankx
xoxoxox

if shes not listening then just let those her other "friends" get her in touble. she will learn on her own that they are not the kind of people to hang around with but when she does realize it done say "I told you so" or anything like that just be there for her. she will learn from her mistake most teenagers go through that and belive me from experience.

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i am 14/f and i i have this white chalky stuff on mii underwear and i have no idea what it is i am a virgin! however i have masterbated b-4 so0o n-e help will be great!!!! thanks!

its just discharge no need to worry. it cleans your Vagina, ever girl get it your completely fine.

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what is the crazy and funny prank i can do with my cousin?
can u please list at least 3 thanks =)

go to these website they have alot of things that you and your cousin can do. if you want more you can go to google and type "fun things to do" or something like that and you will get alot of prank type things you can do.

http://www.chainletters.net/?item=89

http://www.boredthings.com/

http://kidzworld.com/site/p1939.htm

I hope these work out for you and good luck with the pranks! ha

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My boyfriend and me don't talk on the phone I don't know why either. We've been dating since last Saturday. He talk to other girls on the phone plenty of times, but not me. I want to start talking on the phone with him I don't what I should say to him on msn messenger should I just come out and say can I call you or what? Thanks in advance

when your talking to him on msn messanger tell hie that you need to get off but you can call him then ask if thats okay with him. hopefully he will say its ok. good luck.

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okay well im 15 and a couple of days ago my and my friend(a girl,she was walking in front)and i wanted 2 find this pin i had in my pocket so i fiddled around in there looking down ov coarse and when my friend turned around, she said can you walk in front please, i didnt get what she meant but after a little while it clicked, she thought i was lookin at her butt(which iwasnt) now i dunno what to do, i mean what is she tnks im a pervrt? plz gimmie some adviceo what 2 do next.

i would just forget about it, she probably doesnt think your a pervert and she probably forgot about it by now. if you bring it back up that might mess things up a little. so my advice is just forget about it girls dont remember things like long

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i already have a big butt but im a very small person, 5ft2 but i have a great body. i just have a little bellly and i wanna make it muscle, my boyfriend says its cute but i want it2 be muscle. wat should i do to have a big butt like black girls and aflat stomach but keep the rest of my form

do sit ups. it will work your abs so you can lose your stomach and keep your butt

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thnx for your help but i need a little more,

see ive had bangs before and its to where my cowlick is.. and it looked good but lately its been pissing me off cuz its been looking weird.
(i think my cowlick got bigger)?!!

and im scared to get it where it doesnt have a cowlick because they look FLAT.

well when you get your hair done ask the person doing your hair what they think and try doing it both ways and see whitch one you like more. but if you ask me i think it would look better where your cowlick doesnt show, but thats my personal opinion

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