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We don't talk


Question Posted Friday October 13 2006, 10:20 pm

My boyfriend and me don't talk on the phone I don't know why either. We've been dating since last Saturday. He talk to other girls on the phone plenty of times, but not me. I want to start talking on the phone with him I don't what I should say to him on msn messenger should I just come out and say can I call you or what? Thanks in advance

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BitsandPieces answered Saturday October 14 2006, 2:26 pm:
I don't know if you should call him right away. Other girls might be throwing themselves at him, and he may like a little mystery. I always believed that a guy that was interested enough would call me, and it definately worked to filter out the really interested from the really lame. I would exchange numbers with him, but not call him, unless he calls first. Just don't sit around waiting all day!

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killerkittens11 answered Saturday October 14 2006, 2:11 pm:
the answer is pretty simple call him. if you dont have his # ask him for it. dont be shy.

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XkittyOkatX answered Saturday October 14 2006, 11:06 am:
I'd just say to act like you're joking around, and say 'Whoa, we never talk on the phone!' Then offer to call him or something.
He may not be talking or anything because for some rason it's different when you're in a relationship. Just act as funny as possible, and let him know he dosent have to try to impress you or anything, since he's already got you. =)

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GateKeeper answered Saturday October 14 2006, 8:47 am:
well you could do that, or just call him, but if this helps, like my brother, he critesized me for always talking on the phone with my girl and said he never did that, the reason being that he prefered to talk in person, he saved p what he wanted to say till eh saw her, he thought it meant more if you do that, maybe your bf is the same

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orphans answered Saturday October 14 2006, 8:19 am:
just call him, and be like hey can you talk?
it might sound clingy if you ask to call her
ask if its a good time, or if hes busy

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queenhearts answered Saturday October 14 2006, 2:13 am:
Yeah you should do that. If you want to talk to him on the phone, you call him!

If it makes you nervous.. ask him to call you because you have to get offline or something.

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BeautyInTheBreakdown answered Saturday October 14 2006, 12:34 am:
Just call him. It's really not that hard. Pick up a phone, dial his number, and talk.

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HopefulWishes answered Friday October 13 2006, 11:46 pm:
when your talking to him on msn messanger tell hie that you need to get off but you can call him then ask if thats okay with him. hopefully he will say its ok. good luck.

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godslildevil777 answered Friday October 13 2006, 11:39 pm:
Make up an excuse on why you have to get offline and ask if you can just call him and talk or leave him your number saying "heres my number if you wanna call..." cause that'd work tool.

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DiNOxTHUNDER answered Friday October 13 2006, 11:34 pm:
just tell him you want to talk to him on the fone.i had a boyfriend like that once to.if you have to be the first one to call,then fine.go ahead.make your fone conversations fun and interesting so that he will want to talk more.ask him if you can call him,and if he says no,tell him to call you.dont worry about it alot.just make the move and call, and im sure you wont regret it.good luck.=]

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