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im fed up!! my best friend nicole, her other best friend is always hogging her and i never get ot hang out with her, they are either having a sleepover or wont let me talk to them. I have also known nicole for waay longer. what should i do?
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try to hang out with both of them. this happened to me too, so i made friends with my best friends other friend, and now we are all close. u culd also try to make plans with nicole ahead of time.
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If Nicole is reluctant to hang out with you, you should talk to her about it. Tell her that you think the friendship is falling out. If it happens her 'other best friend' is trying to keep her away from you, try to confront them. Also, try to make more of an effort than you are right now to spend time with Nicole.
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if you feel as if the other girl is hogging her you need to talk to nicole about this and tell her your feeling left out also you cant be really mad because im sure nicole has other friends and you probally do to. so try hanging out with someone else
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talk to nicole more often and say 'hey want to stay the night with me this weekend?' then if you do spend time with her tell her how you feel. it might be hard at first but once you get it out you'll feel much better. trust me. anf if she says she cant tell her then how you feel hopefully she will understand and spend more time with you. if not then shes not a true friends anyways. ive been in that situation many of times it will get better and if it doesnt try making better friends. i really hope i helped
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ok well first of all it doesnt matter who knew who longer. so chill. and shes aloud to have other people as friends to. it seems you may be a little jealous because your not with her as much. just maybe become friends with that other girl and so all of you can hang out? or get to her before the other girl. or talk to your friend about it
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i had the same problem and i still do but i think you should tell nicole how you feel...not in a mean way but a just friendly way. I hope this helps.
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I would talk to Nicole about this. If she's your best friend, she'll understand and won't get upset and try to resolve this issue.
Just let her know that you understand her having more than one best friend and everything, but it's getting to the point where you don't get to see her anymore, and you really miss her.
She needs to learn to balance time between people so everyone gets to hang out together and nobody's feelings get hurt and nobodys upset. So just mention this to her, and just let time go by and see how much she balances time between the two of you. Maybe just one day every weekend can be "your" day, and the other can be the others day. Or if one of you guys has plans with her, but it has to be on Saturday instead of Friday, then you guys can just switch days that weekend or whatever.
Sometimes she can hang out with you, others, her. She shouldn't spend more time with one than the other cause that's hurting your feelings, and that's not being a very good BEST friend.
I hope I helped.
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Well first of all each time you try to talk to her and be with her its just showing your jealous. Do you have any classes with Nicole without her other friends in there? if you do then talk to her be like we never hang out anymore!! Lets do something this weekend i will call you
Let me no wut happens
AdViCe LaDy
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