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Okay, so there is this guy named..let's call him Harry. Well, Harry is very funny, nice, cute, athletic, sweet, caring, and just everything!! He's a sophmore and I'm a freshman and I just met him this year and started to really talk to him for a little over a month now. I really really and falling hard on him...and I know that this is not one of my regular weekly crush kind of guy.

Whenever there is a football game, he's always there. If there is a school related dance like homecoming, prom, Java Jive, he's there. I'm always at the Java Jive since the strings class (which I am in) sets up the whole thing. And I sometimes go to the football games.

Well, I didn't go to the first homecoming and when it was over, he got on AIM and kept on urging me and telling me that I should've went and that I would've had so much fun and that I should definately go to the next one (not with him. He didn't say with or wtihout him or anything).

Okay, so random but neccessary to understand: while Jessica and I were walking to the football field, she said that Kayla likes Harry and had liked him for a year. Kayla doesn't know that I know she likes him. I'm sort of a friend of hers but not really. It's more of a hi, short conov, bye, wave in the hallway kind of thing. Plus I only have one class with her. Well, Jessica used to go out with Harry last year. Okay, so moving on.

At the Java Jive--this was before I knew Kayla liked Harry--Harry was flirting with me [he picked me up and spun me around, hugged me several times, he gave me one of those sweet "I have a major crush on you and I'm giving you this smile subconciously" kind of smile [jokingly I think] and he poked and tickled me all night.

On AIM when I asked for his phone number, he didn't hesitate at all and gave it to me in the quickest time I've experienced =P

Moving onto the football game night. Well, Harry and Kayla were going to the homecoming as friends and Harry has emphasized this to Kayla millions of times. We were at the homecoming football game and that was the night where I found out Kayla likes Harry. Well, I couldn't help but flirt with Harry. He tickled me, held me cuz I was cold, we leaned on each others back, he gave me his fries, he took my coke..=/ XD, he hugged me before he had to go, signed my shoe (don't ask. I just have my friends sign it and a lot of guys don't do it), kept on messing with my jacket--all this was pg rated by the way. And the bad part is that this was right in front of Kayla. and Jessica.

Well, I guess my question is: was I wrong to flirst with my friend's ex and my sorta friend's crush? also is there a chance of Harry liking me and even asking me out?

All answers are appriciated and I would like not so sugar coated answers =]/ (link)
first i think yu shuld ask ur friend if she is okay with you going out with him and stuff. and with kayla, you cant help it if 'harry' doesnt like her. boys like who they like. i also think you should tell harry how u feel. hope this helps =]


If a guy you almost went out with and had sexual relations with has mood swings of liking you then talking shit about you still like you?

He literally know everything about me without me telling him and he always talks about how much he hates me and he calls me a whore. I don't understnad why he talks about me so much. I thought he might still ike me but I don't know.

What do you think? (link)
yeah, i also moved on from the guy i liked. we have/had the SAME exact problem.. lol


im fed up!! my best friend nicole, her other best friend is always hogging her and i never get ot hang out with her, they are either having a sleepover or wont let me talk to them. I have also known nicole for waay longer. what should i do? (link)
try to hang out with both of them. this happened to me too, so i made friends with my best friends other friend, and now we are all close. u culd also try to make plans with nicole ahead of time.


I would really like to make more friends people I can talk to. So how should I start making new friends? (link)
if u have a close friend u culd start to hang out with them a lot or get them to introduce you to thier friends. you could hang out at the mall/movies, or join sports teams. im on my schools soccer team and ive made plenty friends so far. hope this helped =]


ok i have had bad wrinkles and dark under eyes for a while now And im only 13! i have these chanel percision samples i got yesterday and started using it last night and this mornig does this wokr and is there anything else i can do any creams or anything?? no price range i will use anything (link)
i have circles under my eyes too and im yur age. wut u can do it just use some cheap concealer. it works for me, and my eyes can get badd. going to bed earlier helps too. haha lame, but it workss.


Am I the only one alive who thinks it's terrible that kids (13-16) are having sex? I'm only 18, but when I was 13, I was riding my bike and doing karate, not giving blowjobs on the school bus. But thats the norm now, and if you haven't had sex by the time you're 17, you must be ugly or way religeous. What on earth!? Am I the only one disgusted by this trend? (link)
i totally agree with yu. im around 13-16 and im a virgin. i cannot stand what people are doing these days, its just grosss.


13/F

Okay, I just starting going out with my amazing boyfriend, (who just happens to be my best friend's ex, but she knows and she's not mad)and we went to the movies last night, and had an incredible night. We kissed, we told each other we loved each other, and pretty much everything else. He tried to make out with me the whole movie, but after I got my point across that I wasn't going to make-out with him the whole movie, he finally stopped, and we just held hands, cuddled, and flirted. I thought he was going to stop liking me because I didn't want to continue as far as he wanted me to, but he called me after our date, and we only talked for a few minutes. Now, here's the thing: I told my best friend (his ex) about our date, and all she could tell me was that everything he said and did was only a game to try to get in my pants. I believe her, but I really like him. (I would never give in to having sex with him, though) So, is there any advice anyone could give me on how to deal with this whole situation?
Thanks so much!

P.S. And he's definitely not as perverted as he seems, he's actually very nice. (link)
yur friend might just be saying this cuz hes her ex ; i wus in this situation before. to deal with it yu shuld talk about it in him, and just watch his reactions. get to know his friends, and get to know about him more. when i wus in this situation my friend turned out to be fibbinq.


how do you get an icon under a myspace pic?


thanks so much in advance.
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go to imageshack.us and upload any pic. then, go to the caption of the pic u like. paste the code 'Hotlink for Websites' onto the caption.
hope i helped


I'm 13 I way 125, I'm 5'0. I hate my weight, It makes self conscious like you couldn't believe [along with my acne] I want to loose weight a healthy way, this hopes of along with clearing my acne up.
I'm goaling to loose atleast 5 pounds this month.
I'm going to join the YMCA and I'm going to run track ,go to the pool on the weekends, cardio, and probably join a class or more.
I'm cutting out soda [which will be easy, I hardly ever have soda]
the hardest thing will be junk food, because thats all my family ever buys.

Any suggestions? Any opinions? Good or bad, I want to/need to hear it.
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125 pounds isnt bad for your age, its average. u shuldnt be worried. and everybody gets acne, but if you think its really bad, you should try some products, or ask your mom for proactiv because tht stuff seems like it works.
hope i helped..


15/f

Okay i met this guy(d) and he seemed nice and i met his friend(w)and i like his friend but i don't know if w likes me but i know d likes me and i made out with him but i think that was a mistake even though i liked it but i like w and it's all like urgh but know d is acting like nothing happened but i want him and don't want him to act like that i mean the least he could do is hug or something but he doesn't and i'm so confused because i don't know who to like i mean i think i like w but then that kiss made me think i like d but i'm soo confused and i seriously don't know what to do so plase help!

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well if D acts liek nothing happened u shuld give w a chance. you should tell w how you feel too. or maybe d feels how you feel, like, "why doesnt she hug me" or sometrhing. eergh. idk.


What do you do when your boyfriend tells you he wants to take a break because he has so much going on with work and homework and school and basketball and with his parents fighting all the time? but he still says he likes me and loves me and wants to be with me forever? I feel like i should respect what he wants but at the same time i feel i should be there for him and help him through it becuase after all thats what girlfriends are fo to help you through hard times and to give you advise and stuff. i love him to death and i dont know what to do! HELP im DESPERATE IN NEED FOR ADVISE!!! (link)
you should really tell him how you feel, because you seem to have a lot for him.

but if you really have a lot for him and he still wants a break you should respect that, and still be there for him.


I have a real good friend who i hang out with and we come over to each other's houses and talk, you know, stuff like that. We both have P.E and when i try to hang out with her in that class, she never talks to me or anything and she seems annoyed by me sometimes. She is usually laying basketball with some other friends and when i ask her if i can play, all her friends including her say no. Ever since, she has been acting like she dosent like me that much. I know she is not embarresed with me around her when she is with her friends but i dont know what it is. When it's just us to, we laugh have a good time and just talk...now i have no clue whats going on. Can someone please help? thanks (link)
you should ask her why she acts like this..




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