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Yet again...
Okay, so there is this guy named..let's call him Harry. Well, Harry is very funny, nice, cute, athletic, sweet, caring, and just everything!! He's a sophmore and I'm a freshman and I just met him this year and started to really talk to him for a little over a month now. I really really and falling hard on him...and I know that this is not one of my regular weekly crush kind of guy.
Whenever there is a football game, he's always there. If there is a school related dance like homecoming, prom, Java Jive, he's there. I'm always at the Java Jive since the strings class (which I am in) sets up the whole thing. And I sometimes go to the football games.
Well, I didn't go to the first homecoming and when it was over, he got on AIM and kept on urging me and telling me that I should've went and that I would've had so much fun and that I should definately go to the next one (not with him. He didn't say with or wtihout him or anything).
Okay, so random but neccessary to understand: while Jessica and I were walking to the football field, she said that Kayla likes Harry and had liked him for a year. Kayla doesn't know that I know she likes him. I'm sort of a friend of hers but not really. It's more of a hi, short conov, bye, wave in the hallway kind of thing. Plus I only have one class with her. Well, Jessica used to go out with Harry last year. Okay, so moving on.
At the Java Jive--this was before I knew Kayla liked Harry--Harry was flirting with me [he picked me up and spun me around, hugged me several times, he gave me one of those sweet "I have a major crush on you and I'm giving you this smile subconciously" kind of smile [jokingly I think] and he poked and tickled me all night.
On AIM when I asked for his phone number, he didn't hesitate at all and gave it to me in the quickest time I've experienced =P
Moving onto the football game night. Well, Harry and Kayla were going to the homecoming as friends and Harry has emphasized this to Kayla millions of times. We were at the homecoming football game and that was the night where I found out Kayla likes Harry. Well, I couldn't help but flirt with Harry. He tickled me, held me cuz I was cold, we leaned on each others back, he gave me his fries, he took my coke..=/ XD, he hugged me before he had to go, signed my shoe (don't ask. I just have my friends sign it and a lot of guys don't do it), kept on messing with my jacket--all this was pg rated by the way. And the bad part is that this was right in front of Kayla. and Jessica.
Well, I guess my question is: was I wrong to flirst with my friend's ex and my sorta friend's crush? also is there a chance of Harry liking me and even asking me out?
All answers are appriciated and I would like not so sugar coated answers =]/
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first i think yu shuld ask ur friend if she is okay with you going out with him and stuff. and with kayla, you cant help it if 'harry' doesnt like her. boys like who they like. i also think you should tell harry how u feel. hope this helps =]
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In my opinion you are not wrong at all.
However, many people view that differently. You can not really help who you like or who you are attracted to.
For instance, right now I am really good friends with an ex and I have a huge crush on one of her best friends, and we flirt...alot...
No one really sees a problem with it as far as I can tell, but then again there isn't much more going on then flirting. So all in all...just be yourself, if you find you are flirting with eachother than so be it. As I mentioned before...you can't help who you are attracted to.
Hope this helps,
Devlyn
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