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what do you do when this guy is really cooll when it is jsut you to but then he chaged and tells my stuff and gets me messed up with girls but when ever you mention it he flips and says he didnt and you know he did bc ppl told you (link)
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dont always believe what other people say...i get told different stories alot you just kinda need to take the persons word for it...
trust me i jump all over people sometimes because i hear from one person that someone said something when really they didnt or maybe they did and deny it...
people are always gonna try and start problems..
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okay so im only 17 years old (female) and not turing 18 till june. i like this guy thats 5 years older than me other words 22. Ive been working with him for almost half a year and i just found out that he likes me. so we finaly decided to go see a movie last night for the first time. Well the thing is if my parents found out about it i really have no idea what they would say. so my questions is should i tell them about us seeing each other or should i keep it quite till i turn 18. another thing about him is that he has a 2 year old daughtor and he takes care of it so hes a good father and everything and i dont think hes still in love with her or anything so thats good. but i dont know what to do i mean i do but i dont, i dont know if its the right thing to do or not.
Thank you (link)
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anytime you get involved with someone with a kid your already getting yourself into alot. im SURE if your parents here about him having a kid they wont like it, even after you turn 18. My advice is to stay away...and if not be prepared...
lying to parents is ALWAYS bad...if they happen to find out or even assume something you are screwed...as is the guy...so in all honesty i would say to be upfront and honest with them...and hope they accept that.
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ok so im 14 and i never had a boyfriend before. i feel really stupid because like all these s younger then me all have had boyfriends or still have them and ugly s (not meaning to be mean) have them too. i know you shouldnt rush anything and wait for the right guy, but im so tired of waiting. some guys were showing hints they like me but they never asked me out or anything. how can i get guys without like having to ask them out myself?
p.s. alot of people say im pretty and i'm fun to be around (again not trying to brag because im nowhere near conceited) (link)
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flirt.
its a simple answer.
so basically all you have to do is flirt, or show interest in guys. If your cute.fun to be around. have a good personality. and etc. than guys will like you. all you have to do is show interest and be confidence. i read a quote a while back that said "confidence is what makes a girl sexy" and its the truth...be confident in yourself, not conceited, just confident ... dont be afraid to flirt...and if your scared to ask a guy out just be open and tell them you like them...if they like you back they will make sure you know ;)
good luck hope it helps!
Devlyn
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Lately I've been feeling really insecure about myself, because my boyfriend seems to be talking more and more to this girl. She goes to a different school, but they still talk often. I've asked him about it, and he's said they're just friends.
This is her - http://i12.tinypic.com/2jb0gbb.jpg
This is me - http://i12.tinypic.com/2ezikwm.jpg
Can you guys please give me an HONEST opinion of who you think is better looking? I really need to know if I should be worried or not that he is talking to her, like is she prettier than me? Thanks. (link)
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if your guy leaves you for her he should go slap himself for being stupid.
your a cute girl you have nothing to be worried about at all! :)
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I know that this is immoral. I also know that this question will make me sound like a selfish, spoilt brat.
I have a consciense, I have a personal faith and I may or may not act on the information you give me.
It's taken me alot of wrangling with myself to even ask this question:
What is the best way to break up a new relationship between a pair of sixteen yearolds without spreading malicious gossip.
Gentle and subtle is what I'm going for here.
I like them both but I can't let this happen because if I don't tell him how I feel I might never see him again after this coming July. I can't tell him while he's going out with her.
Thankyou for any advice you can give me. It's much appreciated.
(NB F/16) (link)
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tell him how you feel....that might even break them up lol.
if not than umm...flirt with him in front of her...alot....lol...im pretty sure she wouldn't like that....but she probably wouldnt like you much after that either.
or you could always tell him you saw her with another guy or vice-a-versa
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ohhh man :(
16 female..
well ive never had a boyfriend. ive never really been good with the guys because to tell you the truth, im pretty shy most of the time and im not a SLUT. ive only madeout twice and let someone kind of feel me up but like nothing in my pants or anything like that! but anyways..everyone including my parents are always asking why i dont have a boyfriend and like everyone else does. it makes me sad when i hear this! i mean im not a girl thats like quiet all the time, wont say a word, wont even talk to a guy! im outoging sometimes, its just when im around a cute guy i dont want to say stupid things and im not crazy as i am when im around my friends! my friends always ask me if i have any guy stories and im always like nooo..and there like why dont you? why dont u have a boyfriend your soo gorgeous you could pratically get any guy you wanted! i mean i dont think im ugly, but im not going to be conceited and say im like perfect or the prettiest girl in the world. i just dont know why guys dont like me. its not like im "mute" or super shy! im so sick of it though and i dont know what to do. im always meeting new people through friends but things never work out or they always have girlfriends! im a big flirt too but not over the top and also i think alot of them just think of me as "the friend" and it sucks soo bad! i need a guy in my life who will care for me and be there for me. i have the worst luck! and i always fall for the wrong ones...
well thanks :) (link)
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wow.
sounds kinda like the girl I like right now.
i met her while she was just breaking up with her boyfriend through friends and she was shy at first but...im a goof...so i bring out that goof side in just about everyone...so she ended up being a big flirt...but whenever were alone she is really shy.
and im gonna tell you the same thing i tell her.
just relax!
be yourself.
dont worry about how you act or what you say, guys like girls who can be open.
and if you can make them laugh thats always a big bonus. atleast with me.
just relax about it...get to know people before you "fall for them" and never be afraid .... if you like to flirt than flirt, try and put the shyness behind you and be open about whatever you can.
i dont know im trying to come up with more but thats about all i got...lol
good luck :)
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Can you be a Christian and be bisexual?? Because I know a lot of people that go to church but they are bisexual. Personally it doesn't bother me but it bothers other people, so is it ok?? (link)
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christians come in all shapes, sizes, and forms.
a christian is not just someone who attends church...by bible definition...and my own/my pastors definition a christian is "a follower of christ" ... christ respected all and gave love to all therefore if you are a follower of christ no matter who you are if you love god and want to follow in jesus footsteps than you are christian
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Ok im 14/f and i never madeout with a guy before! a lot of guys want me to makeout with them, but im afraid ill be really bad at it. Is it true that your lips just go with his instinctavely? DO you guys have any tips for me?
Thanks!! (link)
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Make out with someone else who sucks at kissing.
or someone you know isn't going to judge you..
make sure whoever it is knows it is your first time they will be a little nicer to you about it if your bad.
if all else fails..pull the whole try on your hand trick...;) lol
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Okay, so there is this guy named..let's call him Harry. Well, Harry is very funny, nice, cute, athletic, sweet, caring, and just everything!! He's a sophmore and I'm a freshman and I just met him this year and started to really talk to him for a little over a month now. I really really and falling hard on him...and I know that this is not one of my regular weekly crush kind of guy.
Whenever there is a football game, he's always there. If there is a school related dance like homecoming, prom, Java Jive, he's there. I'm always at the Java Jive since the strings class (which I am in) sets up the whole thing. And I sometimes go to the football games.
Well, I didn't go to the first homecoming and when it was over, he got on AIM and kept on urging me and telling me that I should've went and that I would've had so much fun and that I should definately go to the next one (not with him. He didn't say with or wtihout him or anything).
Okay, so random but neccessary to understand: while Jessica and I were walking to the football field, she said that Kayla likes Harry and had liked him for a year. Kayla doesn't know that I know she likes him. I'm sort of a friend of hers but not really. It's more of a hi, short conov, bye, wave in the hallway kind of thing. Plus I only have one class with her. Well, Jessica used to go out with Harry last year. Okay, so moving on.
At the Java Jive--this was before I knew Kayla liked Harry--Harry was flirting with me [he picked me up and spun me around, hugged me several times, he gave me one of those sweet "I have a major crush on you and I'm giving you this smile subconciously" kind of smile [jokingly I think] and he poked and tickled me all night.
On AIM when I asked for his phone number, he didn't hesitate at all and gave it to me in the quickest time I've experienced =P
Moving onto the football game night. Well, Harry and Kayla were going to the homecoming as friends and Harry has emphasized this to Kayla millions of times. We were at the homecoming football game and that was the night where I found out Kayla likes Harry. Well, I couldn't help but flirt with Harry. He tickled me, held me cuz I was cold, we leaned on each others back, he gave me his fries, he took my coke..=/ XD, he hugged me before he had to go, signed my shoe (don't ask. I just have my friends sign it and a lot of guys don't do it), kept on messing with my jacket--all this was pg rated by the way. And the bad part is that this was right in front of Kayla. and Jessica.
Well, I guess my question is: was I wrong to flirst with my friend's ex and my sorta friend's crush? also is there a chance of Harry liking me and even asking me out?
All answers are appriciated and I would like not so sugar coated answers =]/ (link)
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In my opinion you are not wrong at all.
However, many people view that differently. You can not really help who you like or who you are attracted to.
For instance, right now I am really good friends with an ex and I have a huge crush on one of her best friends, and we flirt...alot...
No one really sees a problem with it as far as I can tell, but then again there isn't much more going on then flirting. So all in all...just be yourself, if you find you are flirting with eachother than so be it. As I mentioned before...you can't help who you are attracted to.
Hope this helps,
Devlyn
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hey. i am a guy.. && 15 right now and i am getting a 2001 Black Accord LX 4 Door. I was curious if this is too much of a "girly" car.. (link)
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no accords are perfectly manly...just dont let it get stolen...
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I am going to be getting a car in the spring and i was wondering if anyone had any suggestions
here are some things i am looking for
1) affordable- I'm prob gonna have a max of $10,000 to spend on a used car (with under like 60,000 miles)
2) safe- will be a good quality car and will last me a couple of years atleast
3) decent mileage- gas is expensive
4) its cute- because every teen girl wants a "cute" car
My first pick is a 2004 Hyndai elantra but I need some more back up options
if it helps i live in pittsburgh pa
give reasons why i pick your car too!
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a easy choice is always a honda or acura...they are reliable..and most look good
my first car was a modded 1992 acura integra that had 80,000 miles on it and i bought it for 4000..it got a lot of looks.
deffinately stay away from KIA or Hyundai...they are crap cars...underpowered, most are fairly ugly too, and they have more problems than ANYTHING i have ever experienced...
i believe kia did a deal a while back that was like buy 1 new kia get an older used one free or half off or something...
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I've been going out with this guy about a month now. We like each other very much. Just two days ago he was telling me how I'm the only one for him and how he likes me so much. Yesturday I found that he got drunk three days ago and had sex with some dirty girl from school. He claims that he remembers nothign of it. He apologized many times. I don't really know what i should do. I still like him a lot but he still went too far with that girl. I dont know whether i should forgive him and go back with him, forgive him and just stay friend, or completely shut him out. And it would be weird at school because i see him for every class. He's 17 and I'm fourteen by the way. (link)
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no matter how much you like him he is a cheater. Most guys like this are out to get down your pants and that is all, they dont really love you, and your not the only one for them...but they would enjoy having sex with you, and if you aren't giving it to them someone else will...
i rule option one out...going back to him is a bad idea
staying friends is probably your best bet...
and not talking to him at all is another good one..
if you think you can handle being friends with someone you like..go for it...
but if not..than i would suggest shutting him out
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okay i really like this boy named adam.. and i think we would be good togetehr and we have a lot in common and talk alot and stuff. but this isnt the problem.. the problem is that not alot of poeple like him. everyone says hes really annoying and stuff. and everyone gives him the cold shoulder. honestly, i dont even know who his goood frineds are reallly. like he has kinda okay frineds. and like usually i wouldnt really care. but now im a freshman in highschool and i dont wanna start out with everyone not liking me becazuse of who i went out with. some of my friends are like oh as long as your happy but my best frined at school doesnt really get along with him. like they are friends but she says he really annoys her. and she tells me i shouldnt get involved with him becauise hes a jerk and stuff and that hes twofaced. hes the biggest sweetheart to me and tells me the cutest things. and i really like him. but i dont know what to do. and if i dont end up with him - how do i tell him that i cant date him because no one likes him!? what do i do!? pleasee help. (link)
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you can't control who you like...and if your friends have a problem with who you date...or if people dont accept you for who you are they more than likely aren't good friends. You can't base a relationship off of other peoples opinions, you have to follow your heart and do what YOU want to do.
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