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no one likes him! :(
okay i really like this boy named adam.. and i think we would be good togetehr and we have a lot in common and talk alot and stuff. but this isnt the problem.. the problem is that not alot of poeple like him. everyone says hes really annoying and stuff. and everyone gives him the cold shoulder. honestly, i dont even know who his goood frineds are reallly. like he has kinda okay frineds. and like usually i wouldnt really care. but now im a freshman in highschool and i dont wanna start out with everyone not liking me becazuse of who i went out with. some of my friends are like oh as long as your happy but my best frined at school doesnt really get along with him. like they are friends but she says he really annoys her. and she tells me i shouldnt get involved with him becauise hes a jerk and stuff and that hes twofaced. hes the biggest sweetheart to me and tells me the cutest things. and i really like him. but i dont know what to do. and if i dont end up with him - how do i tell him that i cant date him because no one likes him!? what do i do!? pleasee help.
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if you really like this person, it shouldn't matter whether everyone else likes him or not.
don't follow the trend. popularity shouldn't matter. just because no one else likes him, doesn't mean you have to agree with them.
they probably don't even really know him & only say they don't like him because everyone else is saying so.
just follow your heart & ignore what everyone else says.
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If you really like the guy go for it. Just because you're friends don't like him doesn't mean you shouldn't try to go out with him, and if it doesn't work out then it was better then not going out with him at all. Your friends will treat you the same no matter what and if they don't then they won't your real friends anyways. In my opinion it would be better to give him a shot because if you don't you might regret it.
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you can't control who you like...and if your friends have a problem with who you date...or if people dont accept you for who you are they more than likely aren't good friends. You can't base a relationship off of other peoples opinions, you have to follow your heart and do what YOU want to do.
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I think you should date him regardless of what everyone thinks. It's YOUR relationship, not theirs. As far as the "two faced thing", you need to find this out for yourself. Don't let someone else tell you.
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