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NO boyfriend...never had one before! why cant i get a boy?
ohhh man :(
16 female..
well ive never had a boyfriend. ive never really been good with the guys because to tell you the truth, im pretty shy most of the time and im not a SLUT. ive only madeout twice and let someone kind of feel me up but like nothing in my pants or anything like that! but anyways..everyone including my parents are always asking why i dont have a boyfriend and like everyone else does. it makes me sad when i hear this! i mean im not a girl thats like quiet all the time, wont say a word, wont even talk to a guy! im outoging sometimes, its just when im around a cute guy i dont want to say stupid things and im not crazy as i am when im around my friends! my friends always ask me if i have any guy stories and im always like nooo..and there like why dont you? why dont u have a boyfriend your soo gorgeous you could pratically get any guy you wanted! i mean i dont think im ugly, but im not going to be conceited and say im like perfect or the prettiest girl in the world. i just dont know why guys dont like me. its not like im "mute" or super shy! im so sick of it though and i dont know what to do. im always meeting new people through friends but things never work out or they always have girlfriends! im a big flirt too but not over the top and also i think alot of them just think of me as "the friend" and it sucks soo bad! i need a guy in my life who will care for me and be there for me. i have the worst luck! and i always fall for the wrong ones...
well thanks :)
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wow.
sounds kinda like the girl I like right now.
i met her while she was just breaking up with her boyfriend through friends and she was shy at first but...im a goof...so i bring out that goof side in just about everyone...so she ended up being a big flirt...but whenever were alone she is really shy.
and im gonna tell you the same thing i tell her.
just relax!
be yourself.
dont worry about how you act or what you say, guys like girls who can be open.
and if you can make them laugh thats always a big bonus. atleast with me.
just relax about it...get to know people before you "fall for them" and never be afraid .... if you like to flirt than flirt, try and put the shyness behind you and be open about whatever you can.
i dont know im trying to come up with more but thats about all i got...lol
good luck :)
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I know exactly how you feel.
I was in like 6th grade..
I was extremely shy and I never had a bf and my family and friends would always ask me..
Do you have a bf yet?!
It's like umm..No..
Why not?!
Yeah I've been through all of that before and it gets embarrassing enough and really annoying.
But you know what?
It doesn't matter what people think.
I started to get really outgoing in 8th grade and got tons of bf's and stuff.
But Just because I wasn't outgoing before doesn't mean I was ugly or I was a nerd or something..
I just wasn't that confident and I was shy..
That wasn't a bad thing either.
But sometimes it's hard to open up to people and I know how you feel.
I'm pretty sure you'll find the right one when you least expect it.
Just don't look for the person because he'll come to you..
So don't let people give you shit about it.
Just be yourself.
I hope I helped and good luck.
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Don't worry, this isnt a bad thing. That special guy just hasnt found you yet. Depending on a boyfriend isnt the best thing, you said that you want a boyfriend in your life so he'll care for you and be there for you, thats not only what a boyfriend does, and you shouldnt depend on that. I think, if you have the hots for a guy, you should just ask him out. He'll think its deffinitly brave, and cute that you asked him out, its not bad to do that either.Dont give up, you'll find that fishy in the sea! Tell your friends your not trying to get tons of guys, your trying to get a great guy that you know you can have a real relationship with. Good Luck, hope i helped!!!
-Brina
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I really wish i had the perfect answer for you, but i dont. i can relate to your problem perfectly tho. Im 15, and i just got my first boyfriend only 4 days ago!! it just takes time, i always thought "there must be something wrong with me, i have no luck at all, i have to be doing something wrong." but none of that is true. you just have to wait, trust me on this one. there most definitley will be a perfect guy for you, just be patient. maybe instead of flirting, try actually talkin to a guy seriously. you would never know it, but some guys like that.
i really hope i helped you out a bit.
x0 Kaci
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