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Q: Hello Everyone. I apologize if it may seem a little long but can someone PLEASE help me. Okay.
My boyfriend and I have been talking for a long time and we finally made it official this week. Our feelings for each other grew and grew but I parcrastinated because I wanted to see what was going to happen. He's EVERYTHING that I want and need. He calls me his princess. Last night we shared a few hours together and they were wonderful. As he was holding me, he started to cry, saying that I have really changed him for the good( I have). He said how he thanked God for me(this boy never talked about religion). He just was broken down that I am giving him a chance. He really means a lot to me and I know that it maybe to early to tell, but I think that I love him. He's always there for me, even when I have to wake up 5 in the morning, when I need something, he'll get it. He does everything to keep me happy. I appreciate him and I'm known for being a bit of a flirt but I have truly calmed down for his sake. Can It really be love?
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yes! it sounds like love. you know when you love somebody, its not a maybe thing, and i think you've definitely got it. It sounds like he's everything anyone could ever want, so dont question it, and hold on to that.
xox Kaci
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Q: well me and this guy talk once in a while because our lockers are near each other but other than that we don't have classes together so we really don't have time to talk....I really like him and i think may like me but we both seem to be just really unsure of ourselves and i don't wanna look to needy to make the first move....and on top of that one of my friends is constantly talking about him and it makes me feel even worse because she's my friend and she likes him too....and she seems to be moving in on him and i don't know what to do...i wanna tell him i like him but i don't know how...and i don't think i could handle that kind of rejection...so what do you think i should do because i'm really just so confused and stuck right now....and it kills me to see her talking to him.....
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unfortunatley, i've been in the same situation. I didn't tell him that i liked him becuase i was scared of rejection, and when i finally felt like i was going to tell him, it was too late. I dont want that to happen to you! I think you should tell him. yes, rejection sucks but when you think about it, what is the worst that could happen? He'll just tell you that he thinks your better off friends, but that probably isn't the case! He is most likely thinking the same thing you are.
And about your friend, well that can get complicated. if she knows that you like him and she's going in, you shouldn't feel bad about doing the same.
I hope i helped, and that everything works out!
x0x Kaci
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Q: k so im like talking to and well i like him and i think he likes me hes asked me to ahng otu like 5 times but ive either been busy or kinda forgott well when we do talk on aim he asks me if i like him i doo but i dont wanna tell him and if he doesnt like me look stupid should i tell himm ? i want to but i keep saying idk or ya mom as in a jokee lol
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i definitley think you should tell him. it seems like hes trying to hint that he likes you!! tell him that you like him, the worst thing that could possibly happen is him telling you he just wants to be friends, but from what it looks like, thats not the case! I really hope it works out for you!
x0x Kaci
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Q: ohhh man :(
16 female..
well ive never had a boyfriend. ive never really been good with the guys because to tell you the truth, im pretty shy most of the time and im not a SLUT. ive only madeout twice and let someone kind of feel me up but like nothing in my pants or anything like that! but anyways..everyone including my parents are always asking why i dont have a boyfriend and like everyone else does. it makes me sad when i hear this! i mean im not a girl thats like quiet all the time, wont say a word, wont even talk to a guy! im outoging sometimes, its just when im around a cute guy i dont want to say stupid things and im not crazy as i am when im around my friends! my friends always ask me if i have any guy stories and im always like nooo..and there like why dont you? why dont u have a boyfriend your soo gorgeous you could pratically get any guy you wanted! i mean i dont think im ugly, but im not going to be conceited and say im like perfect or the prettiest girl in the world. i just dont know why guys dont like me. its not like im "mute" or super shy! im so sick of it though and i dont know what to do. im always meeting new people through friends but things never work out or they always have girlfriends! im a big flirt too but not over the top and also i think alot of them just think of me as "the friend" and it sucks soo bad! i need a guy in my life who will care for me and be there for me. i have the worst luck! and i always fall for the wrong ones...
well thanks :)
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I really wish i had the perfect answer for you, but i dont. i can relate to your problem perfectly tho. Im 15, and i just got my first boyfriend only 4 days ago!! it just takes time, i always thought "there must be something wrong with me, i have no luck at all, i have to be doing something wrong." but none of that is true. you just have to wait, trust me on this one. there most definitley will be a perfect guy for you, just be patient. maybe instead of flirting, try actually talkin to a guy seriously. you would never know it, but some guys like that.
i really hope i helped you out a bit.
x0 Kaci
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Q: but..i don't know. sometimes i enjoy it & other times i'm not so sure. my parents will be disappointed if i don't pursue varsity swimming at my school. but, idk if i want to. i enjoy it sometimes, but ither times i hate it. it's so boring & kinda hard. idk how to explain it. i just don't enjoy it too much. :(
please help asap!!!
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Same thing happened to me!! I was on a swim team and i wasn't enjoying it...so I quit...sometimes i regret it, and other times i dont.
So if you want to quit, quit. There are so many things out there that you could try! If it turns out that you miss swimming to much, im pretty sure you can always join again another season. my parents eventually agreed that if i wasn't enjoying it that was ok, i'm pretty sure yours will agree too. =)
I hope that helped!
x0x Kaci
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Q: okay so anways to keep acne off your face for good thats not expensive♥
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Proactive works REALLY well. I'm not so sure on the price, i dont think it's that expensive.
x0x Kaci
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Q: Okay, so I'm pretty much a hardcore soccer player. I play it often. But my mom is always thinking she knows so much about it, and I tell you she doesn't.
She yells at me for stupid mistakes, for everything that goes wrong in our house, and finds ways to call me a loser, loner, and that I suck at stuff, without actually saying it. She's called me a bitch so many times I couldn't count. But my real question is, is what she doing really abuse?
People have told me it was, but I just don't know anymore. She did physically abuse me ages 7-10, maybe that's why I'm not sure or not. And I've been depressed, at least I think a lot. She's making me want to quit soccer from all the camps and stress. And many of my close soccer friends are scared of that because I'm that one girl on the team who puts on a good additude, never gives up, gives it her all, knows what she needs to fix, and would miss what is important to her just to play. And I also go outside and practice often. And I just can't play well anymore and starting not to love it.
so is it abuse?
any help or advice would be amazing.
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I can really relate to you on this one. My mom does the same thing, I can't even count how many times she's tried to make me feel bad about myself. It really hurts, i know it. She's always yelling at me for absolutley nothing, calling me a bitch, idiot, loser and so on. First of all dont quit soccer. I was on a swim team, and i thought i couldn't take it anymore, so i quit. Horrible Idea. It gave my mom something else to yell at me about, and then when i quit it realized how much i really did love, and now i wish i was doing it again. And about what you mom is doing, yes i would call it verbal abuse. But sorry to say, there really isn't to much you can do about it. It's the way she is. People have talked to my mom about the way she treats me, but afterwards she just doesn't care about what they said.
I think the best thing for you to do is to just stay back as much as you possibly can. Hang out with your friends, friends are the BEST thing in the world, and they have helped me through soo soo much.
I hope that helps you!
x0x Kaci
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Q: Hey, may 29, this kid Mark asked me out. I love him so much, and a week later he dumped me. I loved this kid alot.
July 15, this kid Felix asked me out. I said yes, he was cute. I forgot all about Mark. I seemed to love him. I just spoke to Mark, and he seemed to like me again. Gosh, now i like BOTH of them.
The problem is, Felix really likes me, and i feel so bad if i would dump him for Mark. Mark on the other hand dumps every girl after a week or two.
Felix said, he would commit succide if i broke up with him. I know he ment it. Last night he said he had a pocket knife to his throat, because he had no one to live for. But then he relized he loved me. So, he put it down.
HELP! I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I CRY ALL THE TIME
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Well, it's obvious that you can't trust Mark for to long, so my advice would to not go back to him, no matter how much you may like him. He will most likely break your heart again. And Felix...well wow...you cant let a threat keep you from doing what you want to do. If he is making you miserable i would leave him alone, I dont think he would seriously commit suicide. Just leave Felix alone for now...talk to him about it, I seriously dont think it could get worse. Felix is saying that becuase he can't bare to see you with anyone else, but he will have to get over that, you need to tell him that you dont want to be forced to stay with him to save his life. If he loves you like he says he does he wouldn't do this to you, you cant be miserable.
So for my conclusion: Leave felix for now, and tell him when he's ready to have a proper relationship that he can come back. Just dont go back to Mark. Wait it out and see what happens.
I hope everything works out!
x0x Kaci
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Q: Does that acne treatment by neutrogena -actually- work? Because I've used it on my acne and it's making it worse and all dried out. It seems to be making my acne stay around LONGER. i've had acne in the same spots for MONTHS. i dont know how to get rid of it. there's some red spots on my skin, no bumps or whiteheads. i dont know how to get rid of it.
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I've found that proactive works VERY well. Within one week there is a massive difference....give that a try and see if it works.
x0x Kaci
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Q: ok..so..i like this guy..we'll call him kv. well he turns out to be my brothers best friend..i eventually told him, and it didn't bother him at all. i told my friend jordan, who was kv's age (they r 2 years older then me)and kv's friend, and asked her if i should ask him out. she told me no, because he had a girlfriend, and his grifriend was her best friend. i had absolutly NO clue kv had a girlfriend. i immeadiatly felt emmbaresed. i remembered his old girlfriend (lets call her dee)dee, and wondered if they were still together. she moved to florida. i found out they were still together... a couple days after i told kv, he IM'd me and told me he needed to tell me something that was private, and not to be said to anyone else. he told me that he really liked me, and his girfriend, and he was confused. he told me that she would be coming back to where we live on june 21st to visit. he said they would probobly break up...but i'm not sure if i believe him...what do i do???
-conufsed..
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Well i can definitley see why your confused! Guys are like that, if you know that kv is a nice guy, and wouldn't lie to you, you most likely know that hes telling you the truth. But it's always hard to tell with guys. Im kind of in the same situation right now...just a bit different, so i can see where your coming from. You'll just have to wait this one out and see what happens. Just kinda try to stay out of things with him for a while until your certain on whats going on.
Well, i hope everything works out for you!!
x0x Kaci
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Q: Alright;;I`m lookin for a good song to put on my myspace..I would like it to be about missing somebody who died.My aunt passed away over a year ago && i`d like to have something on there for her..i listen to rap,r&b && rock..Or it can be a song about love i have a boyfriend i`ve been with for two years.thnaks in advance
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Slipped away by avril lavigne is a great song for missing somebody. She wrote it when her grandpa died...it's a great song.
And we live by superchick is a really good one to
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Q: Is losing your virginity on prom night the worst thing ever??
cause me and my boyfriend are staying in a hotel with his bro and my best friend... but with 2 rooms?
Im a good virgin but i love my boyfriend... and i dunno if im ready...
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If your not ready, your not ready. Dont do anything you dont want to do, and dont let anyone push you to do it either. Most likey your boyfriend will want to, just tell him no. he should be able to understand, if he gets mad, you know that he's only thinking of himself, he needs to know whats good for you as well.
So basically, if you dont want to lose your virginity, dont do it. As long as you know what you want and what is good for you thats all the matters.
Hope that helps!
x0x Kaci
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Q: hi kaci, i was reading one of ur answers about masturbating. how do u do that? ugh
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Well, usually it's just a simple fingering. Thats when you stick your finger/fingers up your vagina, just like a penis would. Or you could rub your vagina...which doesn't exactly do the trick. Some people use a vibrator. And some girls get pleasure from showerheads, and running water over they're vagainas..
Hope that helped!
X0X Kaci
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Q: ok i am 13 female and i am very mature for my age. i mean mentally and physically. when it comes to actually having sex i dont want to do it but i love to masturbate. i was wondering how do i control my "needs" to masturbate? if i was to get caught i would be in sooooo much trouble. so please help me contain my urges.
thanks in advance. i rate high for good answers.
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It's great that you know you shouldn't be having sex now. I had the exact same problem, exactly the same. I knew i shouldn't be having sex, but i loved to masturbate, it's completly normal, and there really isn't anything you can do to "contain" your urges. They just happen.
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bio
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I'm kaci, and i love to give advice! And on anything, you have a question i will answer as soon as i can!
Ok...well there really is nothing much about me, music is my life lol. And i swim, so usually im either on the computer listening to music, in my room listening to music, or at swim team practice!
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Gender: Female Location: Canada Member Since: April 22, 2006 Answers: 14 Last Update: February 19, 2007 Visitors: 2070
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